A Control Freak

@andriaperry (116860)
Anniston, Alabama
March 1, 2018 7:26am CST
I know everyone knows a control freak. The one who always has to watch what they want on t.v. the ones that tells others how to drive or will not ride with anyone else at all, they have to drive. The grocery shopper that only buys what they like.... you know what I am talking about, the control freak. This one person, I wont mention a name is a 100% control freak. If you want her to do something she will not, especially helping others. However she will do little things that really don`t matter. For some reason she likes to bytch at me about my tenants, like I can call them and tell them what to do and not do. As long as they are not breaking the lease I will not make them move. Yes they are young, around 30 years old, Yes they have friends and gatherings. Yes they come in and out. Yes ... they are just living. The thing about it is that she was worst at that age than the people she is complaining about.This is getting on my nerves. This is why I do not answer the phone. I have told all the neighbors of my rental property, don`t like how they live, call the cops. I figure if the cops tell the neighbors complaining they are not breaking the law they will let them be, if they are breaking the law they will get a citation or jail. But I cannot nor will I try to be a control freak about people just being people.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
1 Mar 18
Some people simply love the idea of being in charge and in control of others in some way. From the security guard to the big boss.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
1 Mar 18
I am my own boss but I believe in live and let live too.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
1 Mar 18
I don't like to be around this type of person.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
1 Mar 18
Me either because I want to tell them off but I know that is also not right.
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@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
1 Mar 18
@andriaperry I know. I want to tell them too. But I am waiting for the right time.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
1 Mar 18
Sounds like my dad. He bytches at me over stupid little things MY neighbors do, like leaving the garbage toters out on the sidewalk (who cares?) or parking next to the curb in front of our fourplex (again, who cares?) He also gets mad over things his own neighbors do, like rinsing down their driveway so water flows out into the gutter in front of their house...little things like that. He is definitely a control freak, even acting like my sister and I still have a curfew if we go out, getting mad if my boyfriend misses a day of work (which is none of my dad's business if he calls in sick once in a blue moon!) and yelling at my mom if she's a few minutes late coming out of work. Yes, he also has to always have control of the TV and always has to be the one to drive, even though he bytches about driving.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
She is not that bad, lol.
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• United States
1 Mar 18
Sounds like that person needs to find something to do other than watching the neighbors.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
I agree
@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
2 Mar 18
I wouldn't want to talk to that person either.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Mar 18
Some people!
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
9 Mar 18
@andriaperry Yes, andria I understand what you are saying and do not have to say more. Some people is a good way to say it.
@porwest (78761)
• United States
2 May 18
Some people just think they are far more important than they actually are. I tend to not want to deal with those kinds of people. It's hard not to...but...where there is a will there is a way.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 May 18
No its hard to get away from some....
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
2 May 18
@andriaperry Oh, believe me I know, and murder is still illegal.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
2 Mar 18
My mother is a control freak terrible. I'd say it's beyond that though but I can't think of the word right now I'm so tired.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
I am to tired too. I am going to bed soon, good night.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
1 Mar 18
Unfortunately some people worry more about others than their own lives. =(
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
Exactly.
@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
1 Mar 18
I would not like to have someone who tells me all the time what I have to do. Until your tenants pay and do nothing wrong or dangerous, let them live.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
2 Mar 18
@andriaperry You are doing the right thing. If you listen too much to people you become crazy.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
That is what I do, I listen and act concerned and let them be. I did tell one of them they need to cool it late at nght.
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@NJChicaa (116013)
• United States
1 Mar 18
Some people need a life
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
Big time.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
9 Mar 18
God forbid someone has guests over. The nerve!
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Mar 18
I know, right?!
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
2 Mar 18
As long as my neighbor's nighttime activities are kept within reasonable sound decibels I don't complain. Besides, my neighbors on both side of our house are elderly couples and go to sleep early.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Mar 18
I know its hard o live in a neighborhood but not everyone has to do exactly like everyone else, I do like my music too.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
1 Mar 18
Good luck, no seriously.... my dad is that way.... yeah..... wish I had some better advice
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
I always answer call the cops.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
1 Mar 18
Oh the control freaks, sociopaths are the worst to be around.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Mar 18
Yes!
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