being a mom

@sashann (210)
Philippines
March 6, 2018 1:06am CST
Hi I'm a mom of 3 girls at my early age, and to be true there is nothing wrong in being early mom, but there is so much responsibilities in being mom, and you will missed so much of being you,sometimes I am thinking of what life could be? If I have my kids 10 years later than the day II gave birth to my first born? what is the best advice for the teenagers that you think I can give to my girls about love, life, teenager, not to end up like me?
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
6 Mar 18
You can advise them to have fun and maybe a career before they decide to have kids but your life doesn't have to be over just because you had children young. One day they will be grown up and you will still be at an age where you can enjoy life and do something you want.
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@sashann (210)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
That's what is always in my mind, I'm just here supporting them , I don't want to be a strict one but not the easy goes mom, being mom makes me feel crazy always worried about the future.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
6 Mar 18
@sashann We all make mistakes as mums but just do your best, no one can ask any more of you.
@sashann (210)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
@sprite1950 I had this experience that one woman said to another mom. when childs grew in a wrong way is that because the parents misleads them, btw i grew up without parents but i never thought that way all what happened in my life is my choices i had options but i made wrong choices, I love my kids more than myself.
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
6 Mar 18
There is nothing wrong If they too want to be a teen mom.I believe every one has their rights.you can teach them the responsibilities of being a mom and a healthy relationship.some teenagers can handle all the problems,that's why they can be a teen mom.I think you dont need to worry. Just teach them good manners.
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@sashann (210)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
and be responsible, I don't know,I'm just paranoid, I wish them the best of the best I love them so much:)
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6 Mar 18
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• Philippines
6 Mar 18
like for me i have a new officemate who is still 22 years old and she wants and plan to get married at the age of 23, according to her she wants to enjoy having little ones at a young age so that when they become teens they are like of the same age and treat each other as bestfriends. but i keep on telling her until now that don't rush settling down as early as 23 because there are still a lot in store for her, so better to enjoy everything now coz being in a parent's life requires alot of time being with kids and less time being of herself. and i think she listen because she also observes in us her other office mates who are parents already that we really go home early and spend more time with the kids and a lesser time socializing in the office. well probably that makes sense.. try.. but don't feel any regret because i know when your children grow up they'll thank u for giving them a lot of your time than having time for yourself.. i'm sure soon they'll also appreciate your sacrifices. no other job is most genuinely happy and complete than being a mom..
@SeKamal (28)
6 Mar 18
Tell them to love themselves and reach for the stars. Make a point of celebrating strong women and they'll follow along. You, by asking this question are a great example of one yourself! You're doing great :)
@sashann (210)
• Philippines
6 Mar 18
Yeah, Thank You, that's one of the great idea, being a mom makes me crazy I'm always worried about their future.
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