Envious?

@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
March 23, 2018 11:48am CST
Happy dawn of Saturday from this side of the world. I am about to sleep now but before doing so, I opened my phone to check on who gets the top - rated discussion. I am glad that some of the discussions that I liked and commented on are in the topmost . I don't mind where my discussions are because I know my posts do not get more likes and comments. Envious of others? No I am not. How about you? Are you envious to others if their discussions are many steps farther than yours?
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@Kandae11 (53679)
23 Mar 18
I am motivated by success - never envious.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
i see your discussions receive many likes and comments. that is nice. you are so active in interacting and glad your internet connection is now operational
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@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
23 Mar 18
I'm not envious either, I don't know how many people would admit to be envious anyway. I had a few discussions that went popular, it's nice but at the same time, not easy to keep up with all the interaction I get. There are pros and cons everywhere, reason why I quitted being envious in general.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
i think we can know if somebody is somewhat envious based on their upcoming discussions, if these are spin-offs from the top-rated discussions. i may say, in my personal opinion, these users appreciate the best discussions and use it to make similar posts in order to gain likes and comments as well. this is my own idea.
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@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
24 Mar 18
@ridingbet Yes, that does happen. But, in most of the cases, they don't reach the same success.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
@sabtraversa hahaha! right on that. i believe it is a subtle form of plagiarism.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
23 Mar 18
At times, I want to be like them but it is not nice comparing. We have our own cupt of tea so we just have ti make it better and better next time.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
@ridingbet We hope for the best everyday.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
i checked on my old discussions and rarely do i have comments more than 30. i have already accepted that fact, and i still try my best to have discussions that can be liked and commented on. after all, my discussions are like my everyday diary.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
23 Mar 18
No, I'm not envious of others, who have top rated discussions. I'm always glad to see a friend's writing, becoming popular and well liked!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
we belong, my friend. actually, many of us have the same attitude.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
24 Mar 18
@ridingbet When we read about another member life, we care about what's happening!
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
23 Mar 18
That’s true. Sometimes I’m so envious seeing that some members get more than 20 comments in every discussion they post.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
if so, then you should be more active so you get more likes and comments as well. let it be a stepping stone.
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
27 Mar 18
@ridingbet Very well said and thanks
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@Shortail (845)
• Philippines
23 Mar 18
I think the best answer for not getting more comments or likes is to ask our self if, is our topic is interesting? or nonsense? and instead of the envious feeling, just be happy and join them to the conversation.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
that is true.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
25 Mar 18
I don't really think to check and I'm certainly not envious of other people if they get further than me. There are people who have been here much longer than me and are far more popular. I'm just happy to come here each day and write.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
26 Mar 18
@ridingbet A couple of my discussions have done well and it's nice to see that but I don't expect it every time.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
26 Mar 18
we have the same attitude. envy is a major sin and so is pride. envy might be good if we use it to improve ourselves.
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@jstory07 (134464)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 Mar 18
No I am happy for anyone who gets lots of likes and responds and are in the top discusses.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
we are of the same attitude. i like knowing that some discussions that i share my insights are in the top discussions. at least, i know my like and comment catapulted them to where they are now.
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