Do you like to live alone in night?

@deba12 (2951)
India
March 29, 2018 10:43am CST
I am scared of ghosts. So, i have never lived alone in the night. But, today my parents have gone for a trip and I have planned to enjoy my me time by living alone. But, they are constantly pressuring me over the phone to go to my cousin's house. I don't want to do that. I believe this is my chance to fight my fear. What would you suggest? Will you do the same if you were in my place?
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
29 Mar 18
Absolutely! Facing your fears is the only way to overcome them...besides...with the parents gone, its PARTY TIME!!! :-P
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29 Mar 18
True..... So true
@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
29 Mar 18
Ha ha...yeah obviously
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@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
Not party with anyone else, but party with me.
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• Russian Federation
29 Mar 18
Oh, God, if it is your only problem in life, you are lucky! If you are 18+, do not lose time, invite boys and enjoy
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• Russian Federation
31 Mar 18
@deba12 Well, you asked for a suggestion in your discussion
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
Thanks, but I would like to enjoy my me time more.
@dodo19 (47121)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
29 Mar 18
I used to be really worried about being alone at night. But since my husband has been working night shift for a year and a bit, I've kind of had to get used to being along at night. At least, some nights. He is on call. So, I'm not always home alone at night. Only when he's working.
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@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
So, do you enjoy those alone nights?
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@dodo19 (47121)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
31 Mar 18
@deba12 I don't mind them as much as i did. Sometimes, I even look forward to it, as it means more space in the bed.
@anikoonline (3250)
• Hungary
29 Mar 18
I lived alone for a long time. It was so good! I can do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted.
• Hungary
31 Mar 18
@deba12 Yes, it was a privilege.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
Yes, that's the privilege of staying alone. My parents got angry of me because of my did.
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@karjivk (262)
• India
29 Mar 18
I always enjoyed it staying alone at home and never scared of it.
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@ronnex (66)
29 Mar 18
Its better to choose to fight them for if you don't you will always live in fear.As you fight the fear of ghosts,control your thoughts as they are the cause of your fear.Tell yourself you can do it then go ahead and proof to yourself that you can really overcome the fear.
@ronnex (66)
31 Mar 18
@deba12 Glad to know
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
Stay at home by yourself. Nothing can harm you by doing so. I used to be scared of ghosts but now not anymore. Why? Because I have faith in God and nobody can touch me at all.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
That's the point. I stayed that night and I really enjoyed it. If I believe in God, I shouldn't fear of such funny things.I have learnt to fight my fear.
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
29 Mar 18
Considering that there are no ghosts I don't see where the problem is. You have a vivid imagination, that's all.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
You're right. By staying alone, I have learnt that where there is God, no one can harm you.It was all in my mind, ghosts, fear blah blah blah.
@akalinus (40640)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I mostly am alone at night. My son moved to his girl friend's house but he was not here much because he works at night. I am not scared of ghosts. I am more afraid of my neighbors and people who roam around at night. Someone tried to open my door in the middle of the night. Good thing it was double locked.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
When you're alone, you have to be more cautious.
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@akalinus (40640)
• United States
31 Mar 18
@deba12 I like it when my son is here. It makes me feel safer but he is not here at night much.
@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
29 Mar 18
I also scared of the ghost but I love to be alone at night.only once I have tried it and enjoyed a lot.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
Do it whenever you get the chance.
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
29 Mar 18
I was once alone at night but same my parents were calling me again and again to call my friend and finally I have to.. But no problem I will be alone at night for a few days as my parents have to go out for some important work and I will be alone for a couple of days...
@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
31 Mar 18
@deba12 ya...
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
You should do whatever you want if you know you're not hurting anyone by doing so. I really enjoyed my night.
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@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
29 Mar 18
I think you should take your chance to overcome your fears. I don't have that situation till now.
@NoorNoor (2131)
• India
31 Mar 18
@deba12 definitely
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
If you get the chance, take advantage of it by staying alone.
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
29 Mar 18
I like to live alone all the time.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
I too, but rarely get the chance.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
29 Mar 18
I always lived alone here every weekend. And I never I never scared. Just always pray, it will help yourself to calm.
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
Yes, prayer is the only way to calm your mind. God is there, why should we fear?
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
31 Mar 18
@deba12 very well said
29 Mar 18
Nooo never... I get really scared at night. But meditation helps . If not stop watching the horror movies
@deba12 (2951)
• India
31 Mar 18
I did meditation before going to bed. Yes, it helped.