Marrying an unemployed graduate

@Berrygal (5834)
March 29, 2018 10:51pm CST
Is it advisable to marry a man that is employable but yet to have a job.will it augur well in the future if he stays longer than necessary with no job.I'm learning a lot from here.what are your thoughts?
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
30 Mar 18
No, it's not advisable. I think you know that already. :-)
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
For me, I don't want to marry unemployed man because it will affect relationship, you need to bear his needs and expenses.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
@thesupersingh Let's see . Hahaha!!!
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
I think so too
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
30 Mar 18
• India
30 Mar 18
Job is not a criteria for marriage.If he is not getting job due to his attitude then dont marry him, but if he is not getting job market then its not his fault and he need your support. I believe girls should be equally capable to take care of her family. Love and nature of person is important for marriage.
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
Thanks for that
@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Mar 18
A motivational speaker once said that if a woman wants to marry, make sure the man has three keys. One is a key to a home. Next is a key to a car and lastly a key to an office. Only then can a marriage succeed. A woman needs to marry a man that can provide a roof over her head and a means of transportation to bring her around and money earned from a job. If any of these elements is missing then make sure the woman is independent and wealthy enough to provide all these things herself without feeling that the man is taking advantage of her.
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
well stated
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
30 Mar 18
if he's more business-minded and very good at it, instead of working in an office, then maybe he would still be able to provide for his family
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
Owning a business is the best way to go
@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
He should use his brains and start a business while awaiting employment
@Berrygal (5834)
30 Mar 18
Like doing what?
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
30 Mar 18
@Berrygal There are so many businesses out there
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
30 Mar 18
One, this is a case to case basis. Two, if the man really loves you, he will immediately find a way to give you a good life and make you happy. Three, if the guy does not want to work and lets you do all the work, then leave him. Find a responsible man, my dear and your life will be at peace.