Mylot or friends , which is formost ?

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I sometimes face a dilemma , whethter to message friends of respond and post discussion on main forum of mylot . While directly exchanging more private feeling with friends is more enjoyable and exciting , leaving aside the main mylot discussion is also unjustifiable . My problem is that my internet connection has been dogged by slowness for last few days . It takes time. DO you yourslef face such adilemma?