Will marry someone because of loneliness

April 8, 2018 11:10pm CST
Company is a big problem humans have, some people can't stay without comfort from the next person and as such loathe loneliness. Can you marry someone because you are lonely not because you are in.love
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
9 Apr 18
No, I have a partner but we aren't married and don't live together. I like living alone.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
9 Apr 18
@augusta123 I'm fine thanks
9 Apr 18
Great one there how are you doing?
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Apr 18
Yes make sure the waters r warm before u jump in!!!!
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@deba12 (2951)
• India
9 Apr 18
I won't. That's why, I am single yet. I am waiting for someone with whom I will deeply be in love that I cannot wait to live single any longer.
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• Philippines
9 Apr 18
May God grant your wish. God bless you,
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
9 Apr 18
@Debashri Das..thats really good, how old are you, because in India we know how the situation is..
9 Apr 18
don't worry, prince Charmin is on the way
• India
9 Apr 18
Loneliness is a big problem right now. People are getting depressed and mostly take decision without thinking. And yes they can marry, but for me loneliness is better than a bad marriage.
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9 Apr 18
thanks for that
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
9 Apr 18
I would never do that at all since marriage is something I consider sacred. That's a very shallow reason of marrying someone.
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9 Apr 18
But loneliness can make one do otherwise
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
9 Apr 18
@augusta123 Yeah especially if that person isn't thinking wisely. Prone to doing stupid things .
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 Apr 18
No. I will never marry someone just because of my loneliness.. Because marriage for me is sacred
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9 Apr 18
that's right dear
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
9 Apr 18
@augusta123 thanks dear
@Berrygal (5834)
9 Apr 18
No will rather go for love
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9 Apr 18
Alright lover gal lol
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@Berrygal (5834)
9 Apr 18
@augusta123 yea,I love love dear
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
9 Apr 18
There is no way I could have married someone just because I needed someone around in my life. I know people that have done this, and many times the person has been way wrong for them, abusive etc. It is better to find someone you can be compatible with, fall in Love and be able to talk things out. Share some things in common like Religion never hurts either
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9 Apr 18
Alright dear I agree with you
@munhozmib (3837)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 Apr 18
Greetings, I understand what you say. We, as humans being, are social creatures. We like to be in groups, be accepted, be a part of it. It has always been like that. It's in our instinct, it's how we survived from the cave ages to now. However, a marriage is not simply staying together with somebody. Marrying someone is being with the same person at each and every day, every time you wake up and every time you go to sleep, for the rest of your life. At least, that's how it's supposed to be. Not only love is necessary to make a marriage work. It's also companionship, partnership. Connection. That's what it takes to make it work. That's why I would never have married just because I'm lonely. I'm well married now, I found someone who completes me! Regards.
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9 Apr 18
great one
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• Philippines
9 Apr 18
I think if you marry without the intention to love the person you married increasingly each day... that would be the most lonely decision you will ever made. Love makes people happy not the companion itself. But if you decide to marry someone even if you don't like that person, but if you bow to love him and cherish him, you have a long romantic journey uncover each day, which means, you are excited to wake up each morning to be with that person to show love and to show you care... I think arrange marriage should not be accepted by two people involved if they will not intend to love each other,,, learn to like each other, learn to know each other, and accept the flaws and give way. I think, if a person wants to get married just to have soneone beside them when they grow old... they might as well bow to learn to love each other, and never seek love to other people... because that's insane and ridiculous, stupid and immoral. Just Love. If you accept marriage JUST LOVE.
9 Apr 18
well stated Buddy
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
9 Apr 18
One should not marry because hey feel lonely, such marriage doesn't go far and i wont do that
9 Apr 18
Alright dear
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
9 Apr 18
I won't but I believe someone will.
9 Apr 18
Alright
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@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
9 Apr 18
That is no guarantee it will free you of your loneliness. You can surround yourself with people and still feel isolated. Finding one's purpose in life and letting that be the motivation for getting up each day is a better alternative to relying on others for your "feeling good" needs.
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9 Apr 18
Great response there
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Apr 18
Some people do that because it takes too long to find the right one, so they think they'd better hurry up!!!!!
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
9 Apr 18
There are some who marry like that because of situations force them to do..but no need to do it..if we do so we will suffer lifelong.
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9 Apr 18
yes right
@LeaPea2417 (36500)
• Toccoa, Georgia
10 Apr 18
I would not marry for that reason.