Experimenting myLot Payback!

@aureliah (24321)
Kenya
May 1, 2018 7:22am CST
I call it Payback which is just what I think it is. This is how I get around myLot. For everyone that responds or comments to any of my activities, I click on their profile and respond to several of their discussions. This has helped me payback thus I do not feel indebted.
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@Morleyhunt (21746)
• Canada
1 May 18
I go down the list of new discussions, respond to the ones of Mylotters who regularly respond to mine....and any that pique my interest. Then I go to my notifications and try to respond to everyone who has given me some commentary. After that, I'm usually out of time.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
It’s a good way to work around here.
@Paradon (2063)
• Pattaya, Thailand
7 May 18
This site surely is a time thief!
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@GardenGerty (157699)
• United States
13 May 18
@Paradon We have not seen you in a while. It does not steal my time, I give it willingly.
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
1 May 18
I try to do this from time to time. With all of the other activity going on though, it can be difficult to interact the same way all the time.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
That is very true. It can be overwhelming especially when you have a lot of notifications to clear
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
10 May 18
@aureliah Very true.
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• Preston, England
1 May 18
I try to reciprocate to those corresponding with me but also with some just for writing good posts too
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
1 May 18
Thats what I'm doing too.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
1 May 18
That is a good thought even through I do not really need that to take place
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
Why don’t you need it?
@LadyDuck (459577)
• Switzerland
1 May 18
I like to interact with people who have left comments on my discussions. I always respond to those who comment.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
2 May 18
Its a good way to be courteous
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@LadyDuck (459577)
• Switzerland
3 May 18
@aureliah I think it is a nice way to show people we appreciate their interaction.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
5 May 18
@LadyDuck I believe so too and thats why I'm testing it
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
2 May 18
what i do is, i respond to whoever comments on my discussions, check their wall, and read and comment any of their posts that i find interesting. i think it is interaction that is truly enhanced when we reciprocate anything others do to us
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
4 May 18
@aureliah and interaction as well
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
5 May 18
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
2 May 18
yes at least we enhance the communication when we do so
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@GardenGerty (157699)
• United States
13 May 18
When I am commenting on responses to my discussions I try to visit anyone I see a lot, as well as, of course, commenting on their responses. It makes good interaction.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
15 May 18
Yes it does and you do not feel indebted
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
3 May 18
I try to do this as well.. in fact it is how I ended up here.. at this discussion... Thank you for commenting on mine!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
9 May 18
@aureliah not a problem. I agree with helping those who help you.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
You are most welcome and this has helped me give back to many people
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
1 May 18
That reminds me of bubblews and it's not my kind of thing. I'm usually at people's discussion whether they're at mine or not. But I rarely make my own discussion so I'm fine with it.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
1 May 18
@aureliah Yeah I just don't think that we should only responds to those who responded to us. And besides I don't make a lot of discussions.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
1 May 18
I like reciprocating what is given to me first then I can jump on to the rest. I consider it courteous
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
2 May 18
That's pretty much how Mylot works for everyone here I think..
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
2 May 18
Yeah but people have different strategies they use
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
10 May 18
You've got the right idea. It's amazing how many people just put a post up then sit back and wait for the world to come to them. Reciprocation is the key on sites like this.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
10 May 18
You have said it very well.
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@JudyEv (326339)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 May 18
I read and comment on a heap of 'my following' discussions then I reply to the notifications on my posts. Hopefully I don't miss anyone.
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@JudyEv (326339)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 May 18
@aureliah I'm sure it is obvious to members if you mostly reply and respond. All of us slip up from time to time.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
2 May 18
@JudyEv true
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
1 May 18
I also ensure that I do not miss any. I try my best
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@YrNemo (20261)
5 May 18
I do the same or I would feel very guilty.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
I feel indebted if I don’t do that
@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
Same here
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@Paradon (2063)
• Pattaya, Thailand
5 May 18
I try to do the same...at least one of their posts!
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
5 May 18
Thats great
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• Midland, Michigan
6 May 18
I would say the majority of us work mylot in that way to some degree but there are a percentage that don't. What that percentage is I don't know. I know of two that I've considered friends until I realized after spending a lot of time with them that they didn't do the same thing. So, now I consider them acquaintances or cousins of the nth degree who you see every so many years or so. I do my notifications first, mostly. Except for times like now I ran across your name while checking back in with Darcy, who has been frequenting my posts recently. I came to check you out mostly because I was surprised you didn't have some type of Avatar and your not a new member.
@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
Nowadays I juggle between clearing notifications and responding to discussions. One thing is that I have been quite lazy in having an avatar but I will do so at some point.
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@just4him (307541)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 May 18
It's a good thing to do. I do the same.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
8 May 18
Yes I have seen you around.
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