What would make you stop?
By Joanie
@Freelanzer (10745)
Canada
May 7, 2018 2:12pm CST
No names please. I just wonder how many here have, at some point in time, stopped communicating with a mylotter because you didn't approve of a comment they made or you don't approve of their ideas.
Maybe they revealed to you something about their lifestyle, status in life or other information that you didn't know before and you don't approve of. There is no doubt that Mylot is a great place to meet others and freely discuss a variety of topics. What would it take to make you stop interacting with someone?.
Have you ever avoided or stopped interacting with someone on Mylot because of their views, or lifestyle?
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17 responses
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
8 May 18
Many times, as people showed their true colors after awhile. Just like they would have if in person. But never because of lifestyles or views.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
I think it is usually the person's behavior that says it all and would make me decide whether or not I want to continue.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
9 May 18
@kobesbuddy I find that some only visit my discussion for the purpose of starting a fight otherwise they never visit. I simply do not engage or respond. It's like they are saying "who can I annoy today"
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
7 May 18
I do like to give one the benefit of the doubt but if I see it is a persistent behavior that is outside the guidelines of good conduct then I am not amused.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
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8 May 18
@Freelanzer On the occasions when it happened - I was certainly not amused.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 May 18
I haven't blocked anyone but one person I ignore because of his view about rape. It is a belief he has that I can't condone in any way so I unfriended him and move on if I happen to see any of his posts. There are a couple of others I rarely interact with as they seem to be full of anger and spite and I don't want to be party to it.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
I haven't cone across that person. Or maybe I don't know and still interact. That would be tragic. Surprised someone with views like that has not caught the attention of admin. I too avoid the hate and anger.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
@JudyEv I wouldn't either and that is exactly what this post is about. Where do you draw the line on comments and posts that are disturbing to say the least.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 May 18
@Freelanzer It didn't really involve admin - just a comment about wife bringing it on herself, denying conjugal rights. It was his opinion but it's unlikely to change and I didn't want to be associated with it.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
7 May 18
I have had to do that a couple times. I draw the line on really bad behavior
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
7 May 18
I haven't really had any problems with anybody here. There are some that I feel closer to then others and have become friends with them outside of myLot.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
7 May 18
That's good. Anytime you interact with a large number of people there is always a possibility that you are not close to everyone just some. That also could have something to do with individual preferences
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
11 May 18
At least it's only one person. I can't stand rude people either.
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@star_disgate (779)
• Phoenix, Arizona
16 May 18
I know one who does this. Maybe it is the same person, but it does get annoying to see the same person putting people down.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
7 May 18
No, not really so far...I believe that every one has their own views and I respect them! For me all are equal here! Thanks @Freelanzer!
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
13 May 18
i try not to comment on some subjects that some post and if they continue to harrass me, i block them and stop. there are lots of others to respond and interact with and no use in having conflict here i feel
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
13 May 18
I know what you mean. I had a similar thing happen to me. Seems this person really wanted a fight and I would have none of it.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
Disagreements are fine but I do draw the line at the behaviour when or if it becomes outrageous.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
@WorDazza Yes it would have to be extreme abusive behavior for me to block, at the same time if the things said make me uncomfortable, I will simply avoid.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
8 May 18
@Freelanzer Even so, I would rather try to show them the error of their ways than report or block. Unless of course they are being really abusive to someone.
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
9 May 18
@Freelanzer
Those that I do not like or those that I feel have been rude to me I ignore. It has nothing to do with their lfiestyle.
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
9 May 18
Those are good reasons to avoid people who behave that way
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
It does avoid a lot of angst when you avoid those topics
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
8 May 18
@Freelanzer it is beter this way, sometimes we are only giving our opinion and the other people get offended.
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
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8 May 18
I do not communicate with members who are condescending and critical of others viewpoints. There is a tactful way to disagree without getting personal. To me My Lot is similar to a radio or TV program. If you don't like what's on change the channel.
There are so many fun and interesting posts to choose among. My Lot should be an outlet not a chore....
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
8 May 18
I see mylot as my safe happy place and I draw the line where and when anything is done to change that. As you said there are lots of interesting discussions to choose from
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@Paradon (2063)
• Pattaya, Thailand
9 May 18
I don't get along very well with the self appointed Mylot Police Department! Even in my short time back, I have met three of them. If you have an idea for me or see that I am doing things that are not allowed in the FAQ that is fine with me. But telling me when I can post, how my discussions should be....etc....forget you! History time!
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@Freelanzer (10745)
• Canada
9 May 18
Why would anyone here decide what and when you should post? The way I see it is that there are bullies everywhere even on a friendly site like Mylot.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
8 May 18
Haven't encountered any problems at all.
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@star_disgate (779)
• Phoenix, Arizona
16 May 18
I haven't had too many issues with anyone on here, so I haven't avoided anyone. I have just noticed that people who shouldn't be policing people on here seem to have to make it their job to tell others how to act and what to do and even how they should be writing.
But I wouldn't let someones opinions or thoughts hold me back from interaction, unless it's unnecessary.
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
19 Dec 19
I haven't yet. I have met someone here who mistook my intention to something bad . I was about to explain myself but on the second thought "never mind" 
I just let it pass
I just let it pass