Do you believe in Love at First Sight?

May 11, 2018 3:25am CST
Can you truly love someone from meeting him or her the first time? I believe that love takes time to develop, it is not about the physical, the way he or she smiles etc. but most of all it is through time. The longer the time, the more it blossoms. Let me know your thoughts whether its true or not. Also share your experience if it happened to you once in a while.
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@AKRao24 (19780)
• India
11 May
I don't think you can't have love at first sight...all you can have is attraction at the first site! Love requires lot of understanding, mutual cooperation, dedication, sacrifice, mutual faith and trust. It should be devoid of selfishness and false egos.All these things can't happen in first sight @Herlyn123! Thanks1
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11 May
True. It needs communication, time and physical presence. But it some cases, it might actually happen, regardless it was a happy ending or not, that- we don't know.
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@AKRao24 (19780)
• India
11 May
@Herlyn123 , Could be , I can't say about it! Thanks!
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• Bucharest, Romania
11 May
Yes. It is not necessarily love at first sight but it can be attraction at first sight
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@Jessabuma (33119)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 May
No, I don't believe . there's no such thing..
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11 May
Then what is there then?
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@Jessabuma (33119)
• Baguio, Philippines
11 May
@Herlyn123 Love grows over time; no question about that. It's not quite an emotion that can be felt automatically..
• St. George, Bermuda
11 May
No I do not believe in Love At First Sight because as it takes time for fruit to grow it takes time to develop a relationship many people may look good on the outside but they could be rotten on the inside So it is bet to thoroughly examine the person first and it will take a lot of time to see what fruit they have in there heart whether it is rotten or sweet.
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11 May
I agree. To avoid mistakes and regrets.
@chavezrmc (5737)
• Philippines
11 May
Not love but only a crush. Love has a deeper meaning.
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@Paradon (2042)
• Pattaya, Thailand
14 May
Absolutely! But we must realize that there is a world of difference between "loving" someone and "Being in love."
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14 May
So, was your wife happen to be love at first sight?
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@Paradon (2042)
• Pattaya, Thailand
14 May
@Herlyn123 No! It was a lie at first sight! Long story but I survived.
@mohit459 (11921)
• Haldwani, India
12 May
Yep.. I do!.
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12 May
So tell me, have you ever experienced that? and still in good terms with that person?
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@mohit459 (11921)
• Haldwani, India
13 May
@Herlyn123 no I haven't experienced
• United States
11 May
Yes. I believe you fan fall "in love" with looks. You have to be attracted to a person before you will even give them the time of day, but actual "true love" is impossible until you get to know a person and their personality. You can learn to love someone and the traits they have, but the physical attraction has to be there first.
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• India
11 May
No. Looks are deceiving.
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@oahuwriter (2758)
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
11 May
I totally agree with @AKRoa24(12039). Love if it's mutual and keeps blossoming is deep and everlasting. True love is fantastic, hard to find for it must be reciprocated.
15 May
I think it is something called lust at first sight, when you see someone who is so attractive that you tell your self this person must be the one. However, to love someone is to know them personally.
• Phoenix, Arizona
15 May
I think there is some truth to love at first sight. But I also believe that you can build a relationship after that, which allows you to fall even more in love with a person. Sort of like a flower blooming.
• Cote D'Ivoire (Ivory Coast)
14 May
Not really. More like a person catch your interest you learn about them and step by step you fall for them or not. Sometimes you watch someone from afar, you find them attractive and you want to talk to them
@kepweng (16794)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
14 May
Not true for me but is that okay??
@HazySue (21937)
• United States
11 May
I believe in attraction at first sight. I thin the love grows stronger as you learn more about the other person. When I met my husband it felt like love at first sight but I learned it was not near what I feel now.
@kaphokz (202)
11 May
Hmm I think if it is love at first sight it is in her/his appearance. They love the appearance first before the attitude
• Hangzhou, China
11 May
i believe,when you burst into a good-looking girl at first sight,you'll be obsessed by her pulchritude.Boy has a crush on girl.it always because that girl is very hot and nice-looking.The appearance of a girl decides how many men will be crazy about her.Like Scarlett Johnsson Nina Dobrev,they're having many fans.But if she is just a common girls,No man will fall in love with her at first sight.Unless she's princess
• New Delhi, India
11 May
No I dont believe in love at first sight.
@JustBhem (39383)
• Davao, Philippines
11 May
I believe that Love takes time to blossom. And also there is that love at first sight, but it is not loved too, it's more of a feeling or delighted feeling when you meet a wonderful person.
@JohnRoberts (60142)
• Los Angeles, California
11 May
No, I do not. It's confused with lust at first sight.
@SAM774 (3808)
11 May
i totally agree with you .... i dont believe in first sight love ....