Is that rudeness?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
May 20, 2018 8:35pm CST
So much to think of and I'm tired of keeping them inside my head.
Sometimes I feel like it's okay to die right away. But nope, life should not be wasted as long as I can still draw breath. I may have a bitter life but there are some sweets too. Anyway, this is a rant post.
So, my Aunt who lives next house owes my Father's sister money which until now my Aunt who lives next house did not pay yet and always have an alibi every time I ask for it. Just so you know, my Father's sister lives too far from us so she was given me a task, I will be the one to get the money.
Every now and then, she always promised to give me the money to this date and when I ask them, they will promise me again to this date, and it's been going on, and I'm so tired.
How they can pay when all I can see is extravagant living. They always go out and have dinner in some expensive buffet or restaurants, aside from that, she gambles, she always plays mahjong and betting. That money she owes my Father's sister is not even that big that they can't afford to pay.
Is that rudeness, right?
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13 responses
@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
21 May 18
You shouldn't even be involved. That is putting you on the spot and it is stressing you out. Your father's sister should tend to her own affairs and not involve others. If she lives far away, she can always call her herself and demand the money she's owed.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
21 May 18
I think so too. If she wanted to pay someone else's money back, she would have paid it back. You are in poor health. It must be no good to have such a trouble again.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
21 May 18
@ridingbet I think they are experiencing it now. 
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
22 May 18
@Shavkat i would not wish for bad luck to others, but if they were bad in the first place, i think it is okay for them to have the turnaround of circumstances in their life.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
21 May 18
yes, and may i ask if there is a written note about the money she borrowed? because there should be a receipt of the money borrowed.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
21 May 18
@JustBhem well, that is not good for her who borrowed money. chances are she could be sued in court for failure to pay the loaned money to her.
@Iam_jauntyjen (4951)
•
24 May 18
This post reminds me of my older brother who always borrows money from me but hardly ever pay. (Pahirapan magbayad grabe) . The thing is he is not poor. Has two cars, does not pay rent or mortgage, has only one child,works at Central bank of the Philippines. His wife works in a BPO company.I know how much she earns coz we used to be colleagues. But they love eating out every weekend.They go staycationing in hotel on holidays.My mom gets angry at me every time I lend him money.
@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
28 May 18
@JustBhem
First of all that is horrible that you were stuck with the task. You are not feeling well. Why doesn't someone take the task off of you. I would say it is more than rude and they are taking advantage of you.Why won't she just pay the money and get it over with?
@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
21 May 18
Yeah clearly rudeness was written all over their faces my dear. I too doesn't know how to handle their stupidity.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
23 May 18
I hate it when someone owes me money, they take me round and you can see them living life to the fullest
