Do Children of Today Still Value Their Parents?

Cape Town, South Africa
June 5, 2018 7:53pm CST
In so many of today's media programming, rebellious behaviour is promoted through teen programs, movies, etc. Taking this into consideration, and in comparison with about 25 years ago, - DO CHILDREN TODAY STILL VALUE THEIR PARENTS AS MUCH in your opinion? If not, how much do you think the media and society in general has paid a part in the decline thereof?
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
6 Jun 18
It depends maybe. Me, as an 18-year-old daughter of my parents, I still value them.
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@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Jun 18
Did they do the best they could to "raise you right"?
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
7 Jun 18
@TheHorse Of course. Even though I am hard headed sometimes and I have that attitude sometimes that I am not listening to what they are saying, they are not getting tired of saying things I need to remember always.
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• Cape Town, South Africa
7 Jun 18
@mnglsp The problem is, you're fast becoming part of a minority who still retains those good values and honestly, it's quite scary when one looks at it that way.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
6 Jun 18
how would you define "value their parents"? it might differ depending when where you are, and how your parents treated you.
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• Philippines
6 Jun 18
@TheHorse how would you personally define it?
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@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jun 18
@hereandthere In several ways. How about you?
@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jun 18
There are vast cultural differences. Respect for elders is a part of Asian culture, but not so much in (modern) American culture.
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
6 Jun 18
That would be hard to answer @notewise777 It seems that some do and some don't. No doubt it has always been this way.
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• Cape Town, South Africa
6 Jun 18
@PatZAnthony Respectfully I have to disagree - If one have to measure and quantify the present to the past - children nowadays seemed to almost normalize disrespect. Granted, sometimes unknowingly but to a large extent with full complete knowledge; whereas, if you look back let's say about 30 years ago, many of the personality stunts done today by children, would not have been given a second thought then.
@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jun 18
In the United States, we have something called "rap music," which has taken teen culture to a new low. There's an "anti-intellectual" lean to everything that's going on here, and it is contributing to disrespect toward parents and their values.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Jun 18
Hi. I am not sure but basing from the people I know, children still do value their parents.
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@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jun 18
Are American chidren among your "sample"?
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@TheHorse (207512)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 Jun 18
@mlgen1037 Have you noticed differences? I see many Americans as disrespectful toward their parents.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
6 Jun 18
@TheHorse hmmmm.... yes, a portion of them, Colin.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
6 Jun 18
There are still children that value their parents and there are some who don't..
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• Cape Town, South Africa
6 Jun 18
@Jessabuma For those who don't though, what do you think are some of the primary reasons?
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
7 Jun 18
@notewise777 well ,we are now in the modern times and I think technology is the main reason.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
7 Jun 18
@kepweng no, they're very supportive parents
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Jun 18
From what I see, my own children value and respect me. They are both male and married.
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• Cape Town, South Africa
7 Jun 18
I salute you, that means you instilled values that embedded in them respect.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Jun 18
@notewise777 I certainly tried. Thank you!
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@Shiva49 (26245)
• Singapore
7 Jun 18
The relationship is more on equal terms now with more interactions than previously when parents told children what to do. You have to treat children fairly not unlike previous times when they were ordered to obey - siva
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@Shiva49 (26245)
• Singapore
8 Jun 18
@notewise777 Yes, parents have to be convincing, logical and consistent. That was how I behaved with my son - putting him at ease and at the same time telling him the consequences of the path he took - siva
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• Cape Town, South Africa
8 Jun 18
@Shiva49 Absolutely agree with your - firm yet fair approach have always been effective.
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• Cape Town, South Africa
7 Jun 18
@Shiva49 I hear you, however was this not what psychologist for the past quarter of a century advanced - becoming more of a friend with your child? So this then is the outcome, is that what you're implying?
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• India
7 Jun 18
In my part of earth, yes children do respect their parents and elders and a few exceptions are always there.
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• Cape Town, South Africa
25 Jun 18
I guess it's probably like that in most parts of the world
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@Peach10 (1920)
7 Jun 18
Yes it has a great part in rebellious behavior of kids today but if only parents have brought them up to be good people then no reason for them to be that way
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• Cape Town, South Africa
7 Jun 18
So you are of the view that their (children's) behavior can in some way can be attributed to the way their parents raised them? Interesting point, why do you feel parents are solely to blame for it though?
@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
6 Jun 18
I value my parents and grandfather so much. I have huge respect for them and never disobey them.
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