A post that made me think.

@marguicha (216077)
Chile
June 21, 2018 1:59pm CST
I just read a post by our friend Bhem (@JustBhem ) about favors between family. Then I looked at myself, mylotting in full attire after cleaning up the kitchen and cooking more food. I was planning to spend my day in bed but Claudia asked me if she could come for lunch at around 4pm (I will eat something meanwhile). She needs to be hugged although she is over 50 years old. So I cooked lunch, showered and got dressed and here I am. A mother is a mother is a mother.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
21 Jun 18
Hi Marguicha. A mother’s love will always be sought for no matter what the age of your child.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
I know!
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
22 Jun 18
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@kobesbuddy (74921)
• East Tawas, Michigan
21 Jun 18
And we are always there for our kids, even after they're all grown up:) A mother's hug can heal almost anything
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
At lest it can help.
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@kobesbuddy (74921)
• East Tawas, Michigan
22 Jun 18
@marguicha Yes, and their hugs hold just as much power, to heal our hurts!
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@Tina30219 (81549)
• Onaway, Michigan
21 Jun 18
I hope you enjoy your time with your daughter
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
I did! I she let me know that the sort of pasta I made brought her back to her childhood. So now I know what to cook when she will come for lunch.
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@Tina30219 (81549)
• Onaway, Michigan
21 Jun 18
@marguicha That was nice of her to tell you. And now you know of something to make when she comes over for lunch
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
@Tina30219 I told her that even though for me it had been devastating, nothing could be compared to the loss of your children.
@LadyDuck (459742)
• Switzerland
22 Jun 18
Not the mother of Bhem, she is not a good mother at all.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
What did she do to her?
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
@LadyDuck Is she the egotist mother that is always yelling? I did not remember whose mother was.
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@LadyDuck (459742)
• Switzerland
22 Jun 18
@marguicha She is a very bad mother, she does not care of Bhem, she is mean, she treats her like she was not even a daughter. She wrote many times about what her mother does to her.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
21 Jun 18
I say a mother is a mother and a child is a child. Despite her age, she still feels she is a child who needs a hug from mama
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
I wholly agree with that.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
21 Jun 18
Mother and daughter bonding is really awesome..have good time with Claudia
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
We did.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
21 Jun 18
Yes, that is so true for a mother their children are always kids for them and they can't see them in any sort of discomfort! I appreciate your attitude and I am sure Claudia will be more than happy to have her lunch with you! God bless you all!
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
She loved coming here. Although I didn´t know, I made her favorite dish.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
22 Jun 18
@marguicha , Naturally being a daughter she loves your company! Hope she must have had nice lunch and had a nice time with you! Thanks!
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
@AKRao24 She was sad and now she is her usual self.
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@celticeagle (159704)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Jun 18
We all need hugs.
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@celticeagle (159704)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Jun 18
@marguicha .....I sure would be too.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
We do. My 2 daughters come here when they are in need of hugs. I feel honored.
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• Pamplona, Spain
26 Jun 18
Yep we all need hugs big huge hugs here are some going out to one and all. Have a good night all off here to cool down really hot day and still very very warm so storms due. A mom never stops being a Mom that is for sure.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
27 Jun 18
I wish everyone knew about the importance of hugs.
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• Pamplona, Spain
27 Jun 18
@marguicha From the time they are born and way before tbat hugs are needed.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
22 Jun 18
I love my mother and I love my daughter. I will love my child as much as my mother loves me.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
I am grateful to have a pair of wonderful daughters.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
22 Jun 18
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
21 Jun 18
True. So true. So very true
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
It is so important!
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
29 Jun 18
@marguicha yes it is
@just4him (307773)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Jun 18
That's awesome she wanted to come have lunch with you cause she needed a hug.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
That´s what mothers are for, I told her.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
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@just4him (307773)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Jun 18
@marguicha I agree.
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@JudyEv (326431)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Jun 18
Yes, mothers never really change do they?
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
The dumb girl told me she was sorry to come to my house "to bother me". I asked her what did she do for her children.
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
22 Jun 18
" the most important time is family time".. it does not happen everyday, so enjoy her company....
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
I hugged her and let her talk and cry.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
25 Jun 18
@magallon I don´t think that it has to do with age. Everyone wants to be hugged once in a while.
@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
25 Jun 18
@marguicha our mothers especially if they are old already, need somebody to talk to or someone that is willing to listen to every word that they are going to say.
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@popciclecold (35546)
• United States
22 Jun 18
That was do sweet. No matter how old we get. We still need to be loved.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
Once in a while she has these down when something reminds her of the child she lost.
@allknowing (130233)
• India
22 Jun 18
We are a drifted lot each busy with their own life. Wish the past comes back
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
Sometimes that happens.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Jun 18
I agree. A mother will always remain a mother, no matter how old our children will be. They will also be our babies no matter what age they are in now. That's how we love our children.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
My children (through none of my fault) became middle age women. Yet they are still my babies.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
21 Jun 18
Sometimes it's hard to keep doing favors for family. But I guess that's why we have them.
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
21 Jun 18
If we can do it, there is no problem.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
22 Jun 18
So glad you can be there for her
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
I´m glaad I can be here for her.
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@Shiva49 (26236)
• Singapore
22 Jun 18
A child is a child whether at six or sixty! siva
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@marguicha (216077)
• Chile
22 Jun 18
They both are more 60 year old babies now
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