Why some people choose one while some choose many ?
@Vanessa_hills (13)
June 24, 2018 1:39pm CST
I have seen so many people ,men and women. Some people live with one person spending their whole life with him or her while some people change their partner from time to time. Is this like shopping to them ? Or they are so innocent that they don't understand which person is good or bad? I think that there is something that not fulfill their psychological feelings and they search something .
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
24 Jun 18
I think that's depend on many factors, what education this person got, his environment, and basically his set of believes. I believe that a relationship should be stable with a lot of trust.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
24 Jun 18
Maybe because they are not satisfied to have only one or they are looking for something that didn't find yet on the first one.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
24 Jun 18
My sister has been happily married for more than 20 years. She and her husband have four children. They are a happy couple that get on very well. I got married to a man that was the same as me diet wise. He loved animals like me and was keen on travelling to different countries. Our marriage ended in divorce. I had a boyfriend after that which lived with me for a couple of years. I dated the most amazing man after he and I split up. He felt like my soulmate. My relationship with him only last for 8 months. Soon after he and I split up I found another man that got me pregnant twice. He is the father of my disabled son and my daughter. He and I split up and I am now a single parent and not in a romantic relationship. I wish I had been with my soulmate sort of man for all of my adult life.
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@Vanessa_hills (13)
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26 Jun 18
It's just my opinion ,I want to say that you should give a time to your relationship , see how in a bad conditions he doesn't leave you . Give him some reason to leave you ,not very shocking reason but some simple reason to leave .if he is very ease to give up you ,then you should say bye to him quickly without thinking. I mean you should check every possiblities how easy for him to leave you . Let him see how hard to get you.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
24 Jun 18
Because everyone is different.
Some find someone they love, and have a great relationship for many years / the rest of their lives. While others, over time, fall out of love and / or are not happy anymore in their relationship.
Or they get cheated on, left, etc. So they (usually) move on to someone else. and most the time, people do do it too fast. But that doesn't mean they see it as like shopping.. lol.
@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Jun 18
Hi Vanessa. It is a matter of choice. Let others be. I am not saying that others are right when they have a lot but that is what they want, they will suffer the consequences eventually.
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
24 Jun 18
That is the difference between love and Lust! A person with lust will have multiple partners and a true lover will have a single partner for the whole life!
Now to understand love and to implement it , it takes lot of efforts and lot of understanding and sacrifice from each partner, because of which people run away with it and they become lusty!
Fortunately human beings are capable to using their brains and evolved emotions to understand these things (Exceptions re there in few birds like Sparrows ) and they follow single partner relationship and I appreciate that! Thanks!
