July 4 was my birthday
@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 6, 2018 12:39am CST
Sorry I was not here during my birthday celebration. Last year,July 4 I shared you here my birthday.This year due to circumstances, I was not able to share here my happy day. I felt happy despite some blues.
Dennis is very ill that aches me. He is now in a nursing home in Christchurch ,NZ near where his only son lives. It sickens me, but that is life no one stays forever.I hope everyone here is doing fine. I truly miss you. Until this time the Parasat cable does not have the final answer if there is internet availability in my location. I am unhappy,indeed.
Lastly, I would like to extend my heartfelt thanks to those Mylotters who became my friends in Facebook and greeted me during my birthday. You made my day great. Thank you guys.
I am wishing great health and success to all of us in planet Mylot.
Image credit to Pixabay
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Jul 18
I am so sorry to hear that about Dennis. But I know the feeling that if a love one is suffering so much because of his illness, he is better of taken by our Lord to heaven
That's what happened to our father last April 28th. We prayed that he be taken by our Lord already, since he is in pain with his fracture on the hip and liver cancer discovered March. So, he was taken, we are sad but at the same time happy that he will not feel any pain anymore.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Jul 18
@cacay1 Nobody wants to be seen in that state Erly. I know that because when our father was sick already and cannot get up and just be in bed, he doesn't want any visitors even relatives.
So, that's what Dennis feels and besides, he doesn't want to make you suffer too by taking care of him. So, just try to understand him and pray for him
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@SIMPLYD, Hi Din? Dennis do not feel so much pain because of his medicine, but his weight is losing that made him weaker. I no longer have communication with him since February this year. His son did not message me.I don't know why. Last February he bade goodbye to me. We both cried.I told him to serve him, but he refused. Maybe he does not want to see me in sorrow and pain.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
6 Jul 18
You`re welcome. I am sure we have been through several writing sites together and facebook just made sense to me 
I hope you did have a nice b`day regardless.
I hope you did have a nice b`day regardless.4 people like this
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@andriaperry , Thank you Andria. I am o glad that we also connect in Facebook. Yes, true we been together in many writing sites that connect us until this time despite they had shut down for good.
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@Letranknight2015 (51532)
• Philippines
6 Jul 18
No one stays here forever is a phase some day we all have to accept. No one is immortal anyways, there's only eternal after life. By the way happy birthday and I hope you're feeling well now.
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@Letranknight2015 (51532)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@cacay1 we all do but we just can't go back there anymore and turn things around.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015 You are right my friend. We can never bring back the hands of time, so sickening reality.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@Letranknight2015, Very well said my friend.The feeling sucks for this reality.At least I am there to witness everything g and to serve him but he is against my desires to be with him until his last breath; so here I am always longing for the past.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@LadyDuck , Hi Anne? Thanks for the birthday greeting. Dennis is so far away and he already said goodbye to me and his tears fell desperately from his place and thin cheeks. I am so sad of this life's reality. How I like to be with him to take care of him, but he dislikes my idea. Perhaps he does not want to see me in sorrowful and restless moment the time he would leave forever.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
6 Jul 18
Belated happy birthday, Ms. Erly! So, Dennis is back in NZ? I thought he was in Australia. Passed by Christchurch last March on our way to Queenstown to see Milford Sound.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@sunrisefan, Yes he was in Aussie for some weeks to settle his heirs and when he returned to Auckland, the social workers told him his health needs 24/7 attention, so he recommended himself to be brought to Christchurch nursing home near where his son lives.Thanks for the greeting my friend.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@sunrisefan Thanks my friend. I miss many people here that includes you, of course.Today is Sunday my friend.I been to church and drop by here in a net cafe.
Today is Sunday my friend.I been to church and drop by here in a net cafe.1 person likes this
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@cacay1 It's good he decided to stay near his son. Enjoy your Sunday Ms. Erly! I missed exchanging comments with you about your day-to-day exciting experiences :)
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
6 Jul 18
hi erly! i didn't know it was your birthday - belated happy birthday! i'm glad dennis was moved nearer to his only son now. it sucks that you still don't have internet. did you ever get to take your vacation?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@hereandthere, Hi friend? Yes the feeling sucks PARASAT CABLE company is too slow maybe they only have few inspectors. Thanks for the bday greeting.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@JESSY3236, Thank you Jess.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
6 Jul 18
happy belated birthday, my friend. hope you enjoyed your day even with unstable internet connection.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@ridingbet,Thanks friend, Parasat company told me that next week or end of July they may be able to connect the internet lines.They said they have many clients and they serve according to priority number. I am restless .
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Jul 18
@ridingbet It is not yet done friend. I am still on the loading tech, soon it will happen .
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
@cacay1 i hope your internet connection is now done.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@Hannihar , Thank you friend. How nice if I had reached America and have my birthday celebration spent there, and despite having not gone there, but with American Mylot writers, I feel myself soar like crazy with a joy only my heart can define
. Thank you so much, with pleasure receiving your warm greeting.
. Thank you so much, with pleasure receiving your warm greeting.1 person likes this
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@JustBhem, Hi Bhem? How are you and your family? I am not anymore active here due to internet problem. I am still waiting for the new company to install the gadgets at home.They have priority number and perhaps I am near the last candidate.I just hope and pray.
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@anamika161088 (11868)
• India
6 Jul 18
Belated happy birthday dear.. Stay blessed!
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@anamika161088 , Thank you so much.You're so sweet. Stay blessed too.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Jul 18
@anamika161088 , You are welcome.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
6 Jul 18
Hello! Belated happy happy birthday to you..
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
@Jessabuma , Thank you, Jess.
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