BURSTING OTHERS BUBBLE: “Do YOU?!?”

@Shavkat (137215)
Philippines
July 6, 2018 9:56pm CST
We are all not in the same boat. It differs from what we believe into something. There is no right or wrong in giving personal opinions. But then, some people are so persistent in persuading others to take their side. In this manner, it is not healthy. I can burst others bubble by contradicting them. It is plainly saying my personal opinions about something. I am entitled to do so because I have the freedom. However, it should be done in a polite and professional way. “How do you feel when you burst other bubbles?” Image Credit: encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com
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@LadyDuck (458212)
• Switzerland
7 Jul 18
I do the same, I do not "follow the leader", I speak my opinion, but always in a polite way.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I agree. I don't need to patronize others. I can see some members who do this.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
@LadyDuck Can you determine if a member is not being honest?
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@LadyDuck (458212)
• Switzerland
7 Jul 18
@Shavkat I like this site because we are free to give our honest opinion.
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• Agra, India
7 Jul 18
I do this only when I feel that the other person need to be realized that he cannot be correct always. Otherwise, I usually stay away from contradicting anyone
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I do the same thing. There is no way that I need to bend down just to please this particular person.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
@amitkokiladitya I can deal with that. As long as it is with sense.
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• Agra, India
7 Jul 18
@Shavkat true...I prefer to stay away from unnecessary drama .
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@crossbones27 (48435)
• Mojave, California
7 Jul 18
Agree, what ever did happen to trying to sway people nicely. Backing up your point. Now it is believe what I do or I will block you and call you names.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I am such a person that needs to call their attention. At the end of the day, I am still the one who is going to choose the final decision. But then, I am open to certain options given by others.
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
7 Jul 18
I don't bust others bubble so others are not expected to bust mine
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I hope no one will dare to burst your bubble then.
@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
8 Jul 18
If I know I am right when I burst someone else's bubble (letting them know they are wrong), it makes me very happy.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
We tend to say things that were appropriate based on our personal opinions. It is better for us to be honest than patronizing them.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. I remember bursting other's bubbles.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I think you did the right thing and you think it is better to burst others bubble.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
@lnillerman I agree.
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@lnillerman These people are full of themselves. Honestly, I don't deal with this kind of people.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
7 Jul 18
I respect and consider the opinions and ideas of others so I never ever try to burst other bubbles and I don't mind if some one tries to be over smart with me as I know it is not going to make any difference to me! Thanks!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
7 Jul 18
@kepweng , That is their sadistic attitude! They find joy in it! I shun such people!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
7 Jul 18
@Shavkat , Yes expressing one's opinion and contradicting our own is not bursting the bubble! If some one behaves rashly , rudely then I would also teach the lesson to learn! Thanks!
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
@AKRao24 I think it is fine to keep the coolness when dealing with persuasive people. But then, if I felt disrespected, then that would be another story.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
8 Jul 18
There is a proper way in doing this and always having respect for the other person is a major part of it. Some times the phrase "kill them with kindness" can work in many different ways without becoming the person who always wants things their way
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
We can show the kindest persona to others. But then, there are always limitations to everything.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat This is true!
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@Shiva49 (26202)
• Singapore
7 Jul 18
I just state my opinion and stick with it. We are all entitled to our own opinion and should not allow others to dictate. I will tell them I understand where they come from but I know where I stand - siva
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
We need to be responsible for every statement made. I am a person that I stick to my own opinion. But then, I am open to new ideas.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@amitkokiladitya We can't blame them. But I pity them though.
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• Agra, India
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat this is good.that are open to new ideas. I dislike people who live in their own world.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Jul 18
I try not to. As much as possible I go with the flow. And you are right, we have our own opinion and freedom but we need to use it wisely.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
We can conceal our feelings if things are not right. If it is attacking us, then we need to be firm.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
@JustBhem For me, I will give my final shot to this person. If he or she is not accepting my opinionated statements, then I will stop.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Jul 18
@Shavkat If it's something I could not take, I won't reply to that conversation anymore and move on. Instead of arguing or have a heated argument with someone who doesn't accept others opinion.
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• India
7 Jul 18
I can.. It's possible to have different opinions and it is not at all wrong..
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
Indeed, my friend. There are no wrong or rights in giving opinions.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@anamika161088 It is always us who have the power to practice the word discretion.
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• India
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat True.. Right or wrong has no definition. It's just the perspective of people which differs.
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@YrNemo (20261)
7 Jul 18
Oops, hope I did not do that to anyone here.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@YrNemo Can I have it now? Thanks in advance.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I think you didn't. If ever, you had stated your opinion in a nice way.
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@YrNemo (20261)
7 Jul 18
@Shavkat For that, I would give you an ice cream or a lolly pop.
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
8 Jul 18
When you differ with someone and you have tried your best to change their opinions but it is futile, stop it. Respect their opinions
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
9 Jul 18
I agree. Unfortunately, some people are control freak to others.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
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@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
9 Jul 18
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7 Jul 18
It is okay if the truth is too far from it, but there are also those who thrive on bursting that it doesn't seem legit nor genuine anymore.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I agree. There are some people who burst other's bubble without any basis at all. That would be pissed me off.
7 Jul 18
@Shavkat Yea, pisses me off too. That's pesting at its worst.
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8 Jul 18
@lnillerman Like on purpose. Bummer.
@popciclecold (35102)
• United States
8 Jul 18
It's always best yo be courteous. It's better in the long run.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
We can do that. Unfortunately, some people can't do it. They were born to be nasty at times.
@allknowing (130064)
• India
8 Jul 18
Agreeing to disagree should be the norm when two people do not agree on issues. Rudeness has no place and if I find such responses or comments I just delete them .
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat Some choose to not understand what is posted and go head on with rude comments. I have no time for such interaction.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@allknowing Honestly, I don't want to feel stressed out in dealing with these nasty people.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
There are some opinions can contradict others' opinions. Being aggressive is not acceptable to me.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
Irksome people get what they deserve.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
I do agree with that. Some people need to learn a BIG lesson.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Jul 18
You are right my friend.Let us just reply in a polite way despite controversial and opposite for the sake of love, peace and camaraderie in this site we call our second home.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
I think that's an ideal thing to do. How are you? It has been a long time. You seemed out of the picture here lately. What's keeping you busy? I hope your message will come across to other members here.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
that is one reason, kabsat, why i was blocked by one who came from bubblews before, because i burst his bubble and contradicted what he wanted me to agree on in a comment. no hassle though.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
7 Jul 18
I don't mind if this person will block me. As long as I gave my personal opinions about what I think is right.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat right on that, kabsat.
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7 Jul 18
I dont do so,so as to avoid drama
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
8 Jul 18
I don't entertain drama. I stay away from negativity as much as possible.
8 Jul 18
@Shavkat that's great