He said he is too busy to make time...

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I don't know where I should start. I just talked to a friend and I am feeling her pain now too. She is currently in a long distance relationship for almost 6 months now. She and her boyfriend is having some rough time. It all started late May this year. Her boyfriend got hired to another job and started last June. Things were alright until she felt they have lesser time for each other. She was just keeping it to herself because he wanted to support her boyfriend in his new job and before he started the new job she knew that it will be difficult. They have petty misunderstandings and I think it's normal for a relationship. It's just because they miss each other, her boyfriend even cheer her up for this very few times. Around two weeks ago, they have another issue just a very little thing about making time for each other. My friend told me she decides to suggest making time on Sunday because it's his day off. Sunday came until now, her boyfriend has lesser time for her. He never mentioned about seeing on Skype atleast the last Sunday and she just brush it off. Because of different time zone, they only get to text via WhatsApp at least twice a day only when he works. She sleeps when he gets home and he sleeps when she is awake. They get to text at late afternoon (my friend's timezone) his lunch. This past few weeks, no more lunch text according to her. Earlier today, my friend told me her boyfriend says he wanted to make her happy but he can't because he is too busy. I dont just get this, they barely have any issues. The guy said he doesn't want to make my friend sad because he is too busy at work. She is trying so hard to work things out with him, understand him, give him too much space. She even wanna schedule for them to see each other but it never worked. I don't wanna feed my friend the thought of the possibility that the guy is having someone else besides her. What do you think about this MyLotters?