My birthday is about her
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
July 17, 2018 7:22pm CST
We all know my mother is pathetic no need to remind.
Well my birthdays in a week and a half. I work on my actual birthday and weekend in petsitting. .
So she insists and I mean texting to me for 6 hours to tell me we won't be celebrating my birthday because I didn't show up to her birthday (because I work unlike her and pay my bills). I just reply that's fine regardless I have to work.
So She's taking a tantrum and trying to make everyone think she's some victim.
Even if I show up she would start making fun, rude comments, and accusing you of things
I pity her for pathetic and childish she is. I'm ignoring her now because if I say a word she will then do start a big show and then start the you deserve it while she torches the place down.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
18 Jul 18
I can understand your situation, but just try to understand her. She's still your mother. Anyways, happy birthday to you.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
@Jessabuma Thank you! I will have fun with friends.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
18 Jul 18
@ricki_911 I understand you.. I hope your will goes well.. happy birthday in advance
@Deepizzaguy (94552)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
18 Jul 18
There are some people who not are grateful for blessings in their lives.
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@Deepizzaguy (94552)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
18 Jul 18
@ricki_911 That is true since her reward for being wicked will come.
@BarBaraPrz (45498)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
18 Jul 18
Well, carry on and be well without her. Is there no way you can block her from texting you? (I don't know these new-fangled things.)
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
I have 
she keeps getting a new number.
I ignore her as is. She just can't accept that she's useless.
she keeps getting a new number.
I ignore her as is. She just can't accept that she's useless.1 person likes this
@thislittlepennyearns (58140)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
18 Jul 18
Change your number or dont respond to her..she sounds like more of a hassle than its Worth.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
I've tried changing my number and moved a decent distance away. I refuse to say where I work,where I go,etc. She sits at home and stalks me literally. My siblings all just ignore her. They see how she treats me and yet if they say something she will go at them. But she comes at me because I didn't follow in her footsteps. She expects a woman to be pregnant in the kitchen dependent on a man just like she was. My siblings dependent on everyone, and couldn't pay a bill if they tried. I'm the opposite and she's threatened by that. I have learnt her abuse as the texts are her controlling narcassistic way. She just says stuff to try and control over me. She thinks I'll back down from her and do as she wants. Won't ever happen and she just gets pissed off when I don't show up to any gatherings or talk to her for 6 months. I go through my siblings or father if anything.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
Thank you!her ignorance won't ruin my birthday.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
18 Jul 18
I had a narcissist mother. Not the easiest relationship for a daughter. 
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
@Starmaiden My mother doesn't lift a finger then blame everyone. The best is reason why her house is disgusting (she blames us kids who are all gone). She calls me to blame me. She would have nothing without my father. When he had a heart attack a fee months back she didn't worry about him it's what is she going to do (because she couldn't support herself). She's jealous of me and hence her coming at me regularly. The rest of her kids followed in her foot steps... dependent, needy, and lazy
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
I don't know how people can like their mothers. I hate mine and that's an under statement.
She comes at me because She's jealous. She has never supported herself.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
18 Jul 18
@ricki_911 Neither had mine. She did work hard, but her investments were always supported... If not gained...by my stepfather.
@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Jul 18
I hope you have a fun birthday without your mother. Go do something fun with some friends.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Jul 18
Thank you! I tried understanding why she thinks this way but now I don't care . She has no control in her life, she has nothing in life,and jealous of me. It's sad and pathetic. But I'll be enjoying my birthday while she sits whining to everyone how fat ism
. She has no control in her life, she has nothing in life,and jealous of me. It's sad and pathetic. But I'll be enjoying my birthday while she sits whining to everyone how fat ism 