Paying It Forward

United States
August 4, 2018 10:05pm CST
I believe in paying it forward. A couple dollars and a smile can mean so much to someone. Last week, me and my daughter were taking a walk and she wanted ice cream so we stopped at the store. While there, we noticed there was a woman getting a few items like bread, lunch meat and had 3 kids with her. The kids wanted to get pizza but their mom told them no, they didn’t have the money. As it was, she was $1 short for her purchase and the cashier was getting impatient with her. I was going to go over to say something to him but my daughter distracted me. When I turned back, the lady and her kids were gone but their items were still at the counter. My daughter got her ice cream and I pointed to the items left on the counter, saying I would pay for them. The cashier sneered at him so I also ordered a pizza. While we waited, my daughter went and got a few bottles of water. When the cashier rang us up, I asked his name. When asked why, I told him I was going to call the owner of the store and report him for how he treated that lady. (He was fired two days later.) After we paid, my daughter rushed out the door to find the family and they hadn’t gone far. They were sitting at a bench not far from the store. As we walked up to them, my daughter holds out the bag containing the bread and lunch meat out to them as she said that they had forgotten them. Before the mom could say a word, I hand her the pizza and the water as I told her that we had gotten that for them as well. The kids were happy and the mom didn’t know what to say so I took her to the side. I told her that we all have bad days where it seems impossible to do anything but those days will pass. With a hug, she thanked us both and I gave her what cash I had left. As we walked home, my daughter happily ate her ice cream and then she turns to me and says this. “When I grow up, I want to do more stuff like that. I want to help a bunch of people.” The littlest things can mean so much to people. The $20 I spent on the items for that family would not make me rich but it meant the world to that family, in that moment. I hope those of you that are able to help sometime, do help those in need.
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6 responses
• United Kingdom
5 Aug 18
That's awesome, and I'm sure they really appreciated it. I had someone do that for me once. My husband and I were on food stamps and we had bought a big shop at the grocery store, $98. As we were checking out, we were just about to run the food stamp card, but the couple behind us intervened and paid for our entire grocery order. Then they gave us a ride home as we were walking with it, not far but it was still nice of them. Looking back now I probably wouldn't have taken the ride as they were strangers, but the gesture was nice anyway. We found out they were from out of town and came to Utah where we lived at the time for some skiing. It was really nice of them and we saved our food stamps for another shop later. It's also great that you made such an impression on your daughter. Kids are the future of course so the more we can teach them to do good things, the better the future will be.
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• United Kingdom
5 Aug 18
@CountryGirl31 That sucks about your sister but good job teaching your daughter to show kindness for others, but do so without letting herself get walked all over. I'll never see those people again who bought our grocery shop, but nor will I ever forget them either.
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• United States
6 Aug 18
@mommyzhuuraan It does suck and when someone tells her about the things I do (I don't talk to her about it), she says I do it for attention. Me and my sister have a complicated relationship. I really only have anything to do with her because of my oldest nephew.
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• United States
5 Aug 18
I totally agree. While I am teaching her how to help others, I am also showing her how to deal with those who would try to take advantage of her. My sister tends to try to do that with me. Whether its money or buying food or cooking for her, she never says thank you or offer to help so I stopped everything.
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
5 Aug 18
That was very kind of you and you taught your daughter a very important life lesson. Bless you and may your tribe increase. Your act of kindness will be deeply instilled in your daughter's and she will emulate you.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
5 Aug 18
@CountryGirl31 That's a good practice you have there. God bless you more!
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• United States
5 Aug 18
We try to do something nice for someone at least once a month. Friday night, we went to the school and up and down the sidewalk, we wrote inspirational quotes like you are not alone, never give up, your story is not over and things like that. As for my tribe expanding, I am unable to have kids but I did sorta adopt her friend from school. His parents have nothing to do with him and he's living with a family friend that is gone 6 days out of the week so he's at our house alot. I put some clothes on layaway for him yesterday.
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• United States
6 Aug 18
@sunrisefan thank you :)
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
5 Aug 18
You are a kind soul. God bless you.
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• United States
5 Aug 18
Thank you :)
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
5 Aug 18
Bless your heart my dear! The world needs more like you.
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• United States
5 Aug 18
Thank you :)
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
5 Aug 18
You did exactly what I would have done, especially call in on the rude and mean cashier.
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• United States
5 Aug 18
I did what anyone would or should've done in my position. I only wish that the mom could have been there when I talked to the cashier so that she would know that someone did stand up for her.
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@Sojourn (13839)
• India
5 Aug 18
You have a heart of pure gold...
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• United States
5 Aug 18
Thank you :)