Am I stuck here forever?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 7, 2018 2:36am CST
Do you know the feeling of doing the same thing over and over again?
Wake up in the morning, checking your phone for messages from your loved ones, check your email for possible replies from your possible client if they want to hire you back. And it's all the same thing.
Now I feel like I'm stuck here in this four walls of my room forever.
I wanted to do things outside, like go for a chocolate fudge store, eat a lot of fries and burgers. Go for a walk in the mall. Watch a movie and eat popcorn and have to ice cold tea.
But I'm stuck here. I'm stuck here. Frustrating it is but is there anything else I can do?
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15 responses
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
7 Aug 18
I am sorry to hear your situation. I know it is hard and whatever we may say might or might not help since we are not the to experience it. I hope and pray that your situation will be much better in the near future. When one door closes, windows open for us. Do not lose hope. Keep the faith.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Aug 18
I think what you're looking for in life is random spontaneity. A life where you can suddenly just do anything you want and not the same old monotonous things. You're bored and it's understandable. But it's only you who can decide what you can do with your own limitations.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Aug 18
@JustBhem Living a come what may life is exactly a random way of living and it should be fun.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Aug 18
@toniganzon
For a normal and healthy people, yes, it is.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
7 Aug 18
Ahh the routine is boring at times , we have to come out of that so it's better you go out and enjoy shopping ,it's good to take time for ourselves
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@YrNemo (20261)
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12 Aug 18
Life is like that at times. I would feel frustrated when life became too monotone with just the same routine over and over. BUT when things changed suddenly (without my approvals), I got mad and I would lament for the old routines. Thinking back, I realize nothing seems to really make me happy. (I am getting old 
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@sabtraversa (12941)
• Italy
7 Aug 18
I have a hard time with routines, I might quit doing the basic things just for the sake of change.
Such as quitting myLot, ehm ehm.
Well, I just couldn't take the proper time for staying here lately. 
I wonder if you could implement little changes at home so it feels different.
You may search for clutter in closets or drawers and see if there's something you can throw, sell or recycle. Or you can learn a new hobby, or change the position of decorations and so forth.
It might not be easy to be done when sick, but you can take your time. 
I really don't want to go outside because it's too hot. 
Well, I just couldn't take the proper time for staying here lately.
I wonder if you could implement little changes at home so it feels different.
You may search for clutter in closets or drawers and see if there's something you can throw, sell or recycle. Or you can learn a new hobby, or change the position of decorations and so forth.
It might not be easy to be done when sick, but you can take your time.
I really don't want to go outside because it's too hot. 1 person likes this
@sabtraversa (12941)
• Italy
7 Aug 18
@JustBhem 
Maybe you haven't found what really works. Or there's something you need to get rid of, more than something you need to add. But eventually a solution will appear. 
Maybe you haven't found what really works. Or there's something you need to get rid of, more than something you need to add. But eventually a solution will appear. 1 person likes this
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
7 Aug 18
@sabtraversa
I think I need a part-time job. Maybe it will help me not to think of something else.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
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8 Aug 18
Do you have a local park or river where you could walk to and people-watch/read a book? If it's too hot during the day, perhaps you could go early morning or in the evening, just to break up the monotony of the four walls.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Aug 18
for me, everything i do at home is already routinary and i have nothing to do but accept it. i have just finished bahing 2 dogs and now, i am resting in front of the desktop. later, i will cook rice.
that is my routine and i think it also rests my heart.
@anamika161088 (11868)
• India
7 Aug 18
I know how frustrating it can be to live in the four walls.. Be optimistic..
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@Berrygal (5834)
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7 Aug 18
Well this is human nature we get bored easily. Was working offline a bit in just 2 months the routine became too boring.leaving the house daily wasn't what I was looking forward to. Had to resign but I'm here now working online and the set feelings is back again I feel like just partying all day before you know it I will damn tired of that too. So whatever we do More often we will always grow tired of it,it a natural thing we can't change it.
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@arunima25 (85328)
• Bangalore, India
7 Aug 18
It is frustrating. But soon it will be over. Stay optimistic!!
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Aug 18
I am sorry you can't get out and about more. I do hope things change for you one day soon. Sending hugs.
