Ignoring her and not controlling

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We all know my mother the typical textbook narcassistic sociopath. She needs control and she honestly has no life it's sad and I pity her for being so dependent and useless. As she insists on stating she put her whole life in her kids and gave up her life * roll eyes* I'm sure you did was it when you locked us in rooms or not fed us . A few weeks ago she starts randomly calling/texting me almost threats honestly She has no back bone and no life that I'd even take these serious. She can't even go to Wal-Mart alone let alone anywhere else. Instead of saying anything I deleted the text or didn't call back. This was directly before my birthday. So my birthday came and went. I worked then treated myself a friend who knows everything went out with me. Well that just pissed Satan off since I didn't want to be near her and her negative insulting accusing self. So she starts messaging my siblings. Honestly dont know if they see the issue but I truely think they do. I didn't return the calls or text. A week later my sister invites me over for dinner. I knew she invited my parents so knowing it would pissed off Satan I went. It's the fact she needs to see she has no control and she needs to grow up get a life and hate herself. So entire dinner she stared me doen and made faces. Completely ignored her. When I left my sister said she started trying to talk about me and how I'm so busy. I said honestly I don't care she could drop dead and I would cheer she is dead to me and she ruined any form of relationship we had. Well today she texted my brother. Now frankly I don't know which sibling to trust. My older brother has a big mouth but he hasn't been around or this area for years, whereas my sister lives down the road but she also tries to fix everything. So my brother texts me to see if I reply. So I did of course as he was picking up a contest win for me. He starts in how she starts texting him how I did this or that. I go funny because I haven't seen her in 2 weeks and avoid her like the plague so how could that happen. I took a friend advice ignore her and pretend she doesn't exist. She has no control and no reaction. It seems to be working but pudding Satan off. I'm sure she will try a few more things because she has no life outside , and claims ism nothing without her. I agree seeing her I promised myself I'd never be a useless dependent needy woman and I have succeeded. I work 3 jobs and do side job, support myself, and am happy where ism. I have goals, and have control of my choices. Sadly she doesn't and jealous of me for that.