Misunderstanding- an evil of relationship!!

@Teekaaa (11580)
India
August 15, 2018 12:51am CST
Hi mylotters! How's everyone doing? Happy to see you all after a long time. Going to the discussion... I am going to share with you guys, about an incident that happened in my childhood. I was in grade 3 or grade 4 , not sure!! It was the birthday anniversary of one of my bestie . She gave candies for each and everyone in the class, but she came near me , but didn't give me any candies ,crossed me and went and gave candies to rest of her friends... Mylotters, what do you think at this juncture?? Yes!! You're damn right!!! I too thought the same way..... I thought she was not interested to give me candies.... . I was thinking about that incident and after sometimes, my friend came to me and to my great surprise, she gave a very big chocolate to me .... saying that she likes me very much than all of her other friends. That moment ,I was ashamed of myself, for my misunderstanding. In a minute or two, I devalued her friendship ..This may sound childish but , " misunderstanding - it's the main thing for many problems. Do you agree?? Share your views on misunderstanding people. Image courtesy Google.
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• Cuddalore, India
16 Aug 18
Wow, You had got a great friend.
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
17 Aug 18
Yes! That's true! Do you have any experience regarding this?
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
17 Aug 18
@Lignitecityabishek96 it's okay friend! Good night and sleep tight
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• Cuddalore, India
17 Aug 18
@Teekaaa No I don't have any
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
18 Aug 18
Misunderstandings easily creep in if you are not alert and before you realize they do a lot of damage to a beautiful relationship. SO keep the communication channel open to avoid it.
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
23 Sep 18
Yes! You're absolutely right my friend!
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
24 Sep 18
@Teekaaa Thanks for agreeing with my views.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
15 Aug 18
I agree with you ..yes one must clear out everything...
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
17 Aug 18
@Teekaaa you to ..
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
17 Aug 18
You're right! Thanks for agreeing and have a good day!! :-))
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
15 Aug 18
Yes dear misunderstanding is the main problem in any relationship ..it's always better to think from other person side to avoid such misunderstandings
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
15 Aug 18
Yes! You're absolutely right! It's the best thing to avoid such misunderstanding.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
15 Aug 18
@Teekaaa yeah that's best
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
15 Aug 18
Yes it is. Many a times we jump to the conclusion before knowing the whole matter. Welcome back dear friend. Missed u a lot. Now don't go away and stay here with us mylotters. Warm regards, Rashnag.
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
17 Aug 18
For any matter, we have to analyse the whole thing and then only we have to come to a conclusion...!! Thanks a lot friend! I am very much happy that atleast one soul in MyLot has missed me..he.he I'll try to be more active! Have a good day
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
17 Aug 18
@Teekaaa U too have a good day dear!
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@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 18
thats true, misunderstandings always leads us to do things that we never meant to do
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
15 Aug 18
Yes! You're right my friend! Thanks for sharing your views on this
@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
13 Nov 18
@Teekaaa You did not know so your mind was playing tricks with you. Friendship is hard. I have reconnected twice with the same person and each time she wanted to know if I was angry and tried to explain she decided to get nasty about it and I do not need toxic people like that in my life. After this last time I told him to not contact me and I will not be there for Hannuka. She is not a nice person. i feel bad for her husband because she is a very manipulating person.
15 Aug 18
I have this aunt of mine. Every reunion she gave everyone 100 peso bill, she let everyone fall inline and give them one by one. And she will always ask me not to join in the line and just sit beside her and hold her bag or give out drink and food to the rest of the guest. Then after everyone received their 100 and everyone have eaten she will hand me 500 pesos and a gift as well because I am her favorite among all her nieces and grandchildrens. She even gave me a 3 million worth of inheritance when she passed.
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@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
17 Aug 18
For any matter, we have to analyse the whole thing and then only we have to come to a conclusion...!! Now ,I hope you've understand the mindset of your aunt!