You'll Understand When You're Older? Part 1

@xander6464 (40884)
Wapello, Iowa
September 4, 2018 11:45am CST
MyLot Exclusive Lucky #13 If I had a nickel for every time I'd been told, "You'll understand when you're older," between 1964 and 1980, I'd have...Well, I don't know exactly how much I'd have but I can tell you, I could quit this lousy job! I can also tell you that the one thing I do understand now, when I'm just about as old as you can get, is the very same thing I understood then. The people who told me that were idiots. And we're still paying for that idiocy...And still supporting it. Case in point, just one of the many examples I could give you, when I asked, "Why do we lock up people for smoking marijuana when it makes no sense?" I was given the stock response and if I pressed the issue, I might get a little more. Such pearls of wisdom as, "It just has to be that way." And the result? Though there has been some progress regarding that particular issue, we are still wasting billions of dollars and ruining millions of lives every year. My point is that if a little kid asks you an important question about an important issue and the only answer you can give is a trite, meaningless cliche, DON'T! Instead, say you'll get back to them and then go study up on the topic and come back with a meaningful, well-informed answer (And even if you come up with the wrong answer, at least later you can say you studied and were well-informed). If you don't, you're part of the problem and the problem will stay with us for decades. I'm not saying that knowledge is a magic cure for everything...But then again, it might be. Anyway, if more people educated themselves about more things, they would make better choices when voting and that's where and how we get things done the fastest. Also, in 40 years, kids won't be referring to you as an idiot in a Blog post. That's my mini-rant for today on this topic and I guess there will be more since we called this one Part One and if there isn't a Part Two, it will rip a hole in the fabric of space and time and every molecule in the Universe will explode at the speed of light. And some of my friends tell me that would be a bad thing.
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@GreatMartin (23676)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
5 Sep 18
I can't wait until I am older---or as old as you are!!! (You old people always lie to us kids!)
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@paigea (35702)
• Canada
4 Sep 18
I understand a lot of things now that I am older. I really wasn't told that very often, so my nickels wouldn't add up to much.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
4 Sep 18
Ah, but if you had taken the nickels you did have and put them in a bank with a 5% interest rate, you'd be rich now!
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• Preston, England
5 Sep 18
yes, I was often fobbed off with that one too
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
6 Sep 18
As my friend Donny says, we need to look into the laws allowing it!
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@just4him (306354)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
5 Sep 18
I hated 'I told you so' as a kid. Another one I hated was the one you mentioned, 'You'll understand when you grow up'. Funny thing about that last one, I still don't understand. Because I hated those cliches, I did my best not to use them and become one of the mindless idiots of society who relied on cliches to see them through the day.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
6 Sep 18
You're making a difference! It may not always be visible but you are.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
8 Sep 18
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@just4him (306354)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
8 Sep 18
@xander6464 Thank you.
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24 Sep 18
I think, a lot of us homeschool teachers (and moms), "Research, investigate, and never leave rocks (books) unturned" have always been our do-it principles with our scholars (I love calling them that) "Let's research on that together. I'll make time" is just our natural way of answering our children's questions. Often, those questions become mine, too-- with a deeper or change-of-heart perspective on things. Modesty aside...
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
24 Sep 18
I think all modesty should be set aside or most of it, anyway, but that's another topic for another day. It seems that you've stumbled on a great secret: One of the very best way to learn is to teach.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
24 Sep 18
@everwonderwhy He was pretty much on the right track.
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24 Sep 18
@xander6464 I guess you stand by Aristotle's guiding principle about learning and teaching: "The one exclusive sign of thorough knowledge is the power of teaching." -Aristotle (384 – 322 BC).
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
6 Sep 18
Kids' minds are pure and sometimes has more common sense.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
6 Sep 18
Sometimes it seems like they are the only ones with common sense.
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• Dallas, Texas
5 Sep 18
I listened to my father. He often told me, "You are copping out. You need to get a job and help out around here. I've been taking care of you long enough. It's time for you to return the favor. You need to look after me when I am older and can't work any more." But what he said was true. I didn't pay any attention then but in hind sight, I wish I did more for him and my mom.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
6 Sep 18
Hind sight is always 20/20.