Are u afraid of break up's ?

Not really scared. Beem there, done that.

Yes. Because i know it will be painful to me. It will affect my day to day life.

nah I was never scared of being dumped. Not saying I liked it but I was of the mind that they just didn't want to be with me and that was that. I'm not about to go chasing and begging

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Nope, because most of the people I have dated we were not together long enough to really love unconditionally and to feel betrayed by them. Most of the time I predicted when the break up was going to happen.

Maricris, there is nothing wrong with loving deeply, specially when we love ourselves deeply than the other person. My point here is, when we love ourselves more than the other person, it will not be so painful to leave them specially when they are not giving enough love in the relationship. That is unfair and that is immature too. The past failed relationships you are anybody had were lessons for us all to learn from. I hope you will love yourself more now Maricris, specially you have 3 kids now. I was the one who left the father of my daughter because I met him 3/4 of the way, that was wrong of me to do, that was not love that was almost adoring him, wrong for me to do that. I left him with no drama (no tears because he was not worth a drop), specially he disrespected my Mom with Parkinson's that time. So, please love yourself more now aside from your kids.

yes i am

No I am not afraid. We are clue to each other

I never went into a relationship thinking it was going to fail. I wasn't happy when some did fail for one reason or another. I got through them.

No I am not. I hope we can do it easily even if we are married.

The thing about love is that is unexplainable it’s agreat feeling in different ways like you love food, kids, your partner is different love but the fall is hard I believe the more you’re in love the harder the fall we all take risks when it comes to love Cause sometimes it’s unexpected

At first yes, but then if I think deeply if I am having a breakup means the other person does not care for me and maybe never earlier did. So, what's the use of being with such a person. It will only hurt my feeling in the longer run. I tell myself that I deserve better and move on.

Never in a relationship before but it is something that speak your feeling. Hope you are okay and have a new life. Take care.