What do you see?

By Toni
@toniganzon (72285)
Philippines
September 6, 2018 8:17am CST
Have you seen your reflection in the mirror recently? What do you see? Do you see a young person, full of life and inspiration? Do you see someone who's motivated? Do you see someone who's so driven and idealistic? Do you see someone fulfilled and satisfied? I had a good look in the mirror recently and what I saw was a 40 year old woman, with fine lines starting to show on her forehead, thinner face, and eyes still sparkling. I see someone who's ready to start a new adventure again and so driven to climb the highest peak of her career. I see someone who's just ready to begin her life again....at forty!
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Sep 18
Every day I wake up ready to take on the world, to soar with the eagles, only to go to work and realize I work with a bunch of turkeys! lol
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
reality sucks doesn't it?
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
@moffittjc Nobody can ruin your day Jeff.
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon I never let those sourpusses ruin my day!
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
6 Sep 18
I've seen your reflection there. @40, really? Just looks like 25 for me. I don't want to see my reflection in the mirror. Last time I've checked, there's a monster in the mirror.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
don't tell me you're still scared of monsters. Yes, I'm 40 and in 5 months time I'll be 41.
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
21 Sep 18
@porwest Surely, you asked the mirror while throwing the mirror a stone. Haha.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
whenever we have activities in school, like the return demonstration of the students last Monday and Tuesday, i often take pictures of us part-time instructors. i cannot deny the fact that i have eye bags, some crow's feet and laugh lines, but i am just proud of these because it shows my life as a teacher and as a mother. even the crossed brows when i have a discussion with my sister--it is already deep and embedded up here.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Ageing is a fact of life and there's no way of escaping unless we are Vicky Belo but we're not and I don't want to spend millions just to look young and stay young so I could marry a Doc Haden. I'm happy where I am! But I try my best to retain my youthful appearance when I can.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 Sep 18
@ridingbet Eye bags is brought about by ageing actually. So we will all have that fatty deposits under our eyes.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
8 Sep 18
@toniganzon i guess the eye bags in me is already a part of my personality. "do you know Ma'am Ingrid, the one with eye bags?"--- just kidding.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Sep 18
When I look in the mirror, I see a lady who's aging on the outside, only:) My goal each day, is to inspire others, not my personal ego.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
That's a wonderful goal.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
@kobesbuddy You thought nobody needed you?
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon I was shocked to find out, some people actually need me.
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• Agra, India
6 Sep 18
I see a tired mother with messed hair
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
You have a young child. Mine is 14 but I have a new baby in the house that requires my full attention but I don' stay I'm tired because I like taking care of her.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
@amitkokiladitya Only those who are close minded can't see that being a mother is the only job that gets no salary and yet works 24/7.
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• Agra, India
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon yes...but there are times when I need others to realize that being a mother can be tiring
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@domiwla (398)
• Venezuela
6 Sep 18
I see a man inspired to help everyone who can, I see the creation of God, whom he uses as an instrument for his mission on earth.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
All the best to you.
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@kobesbuddy (74571)
• East Tawas, Michigan
6 Sep 18
Wonderful to hear, Domingo! God is our source of value and strength:)
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Life begins at forty as the saying goes that's why. Actually, I see in me an old woman whenever I see myself in the mirror. Wrinkles , big pored and sagging skin is what I see. Eyebags are so obvious too. But I don't deter them to make me feel down. All I know, is I have to enjoy life to the fullest, as it rolls.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Yeah my teenage life is just beginning.. Adult life begins at 50. We will all get wrinkled and all but if there's a way to prevent it, why not! I'm going to test out a new product from Korea that some people swore by. I will share it in my blog the moment I get to try it. But it will arrive at the end of the month.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Sep 18
@SIMPLYD Sure I will. I will try to update my blog every week for new products.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Sep 18
@toniganzon Yes, we should do what we can to prevent looking old as our age. Please message me if you have a blog about it, so I can read it. I sometimes forget things.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
6 Sep 18
Also in Italy we say that life begins at forty and I have to say that my 40's were beautiful years. I would go back to those times for sure.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Now that I'm 40, looking back, 30s were the awesome years of my life. But I need to start a new and different adventure now that I'm 40.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
@LadyDuck I have yet to see what 40s has in store for me.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon My 30's were fine, but I enjoyed life more in my 40's.
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
11 Sep 18
Hmmm... I will tell you what I see in the selfie at the top of this discussion, Toni... Of course, what I see may not be exactly the same person you see. I see a beautiful young woman who has already taken on the world and built an amazing career she loves with further building yet to come... I see a sparkle of mischief in her beautiful eyes and I see someone who cares about her friends and acquaintances... I also see someone who loves her family very much... Wait! You can see fine lines on that impish face? Then you must have much better eyesight than I have or you are being unusually sensitive about something only you can see... I'm not there so can't scrunch up closer to you to see which it is and wouldn't look that closely even if I was there. I know I've told you to stop telling fibs about your age! *sigh*
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
11 Sep 18
Thank you Dear Daddy Evil, but pictures hide a lot of things you know..
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
@DaddyEvil Or the person looking at the picture is in terrible need of eye glasses.
@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
13 Sep 18
@toniganzon You are very welcome Grand Princess Anne Grafton. I've noticed that many things hide the truth but pictures usually highlight things most people prefer to keep hidden. *shrug* I guess the perspective matters...
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
22 Nov 18
They say life begins at 40! At first, I did not understand what that saying implies till I had 3 gfs. That is why I never thought of becoming an insurance salesman here in my new country. And let me answer your question ... I see a kissable belly button!Hehehe
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
23 Nov 18
And I hope that I could say again that life begins....when I turn 50.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
24 Nov 18
@antonbunot I belive i am.
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
23 Nov 18
@toniganzon then you are a never ending story. Hehehe
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
7 Sep 18
I never see anyone more than what I really am. Looking into the mirror, I see a tired 25 year old with zero motivation sometimes. Other times, I get inspired by something and the glint in my eyes come back, but that's it. It's really sad
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
That's terrible and you still have a lot of years ahead of you.
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• Kolkata, India
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon True. But I don't spend much time in front of a mirror anyways. Not a self-reflection kind of person actually. I just deal with what life throws at me
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
@ria1606roy If there's one thing I really don't enjoy doing, it's watching my self in the mirror. In fact I stay away from public mirrors. But I hope you get to change that reflection you see of yourself coz you're young and you have so much ahead of you.
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@DianneN (246849)
• United States
6 Sep 18
My doctor told me to stop looking in the mirror. Really! Life at 40 was just the beginning of wonderful things to come for me.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Now you make me feel excited being 40! Thanks Princess Di.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
@DianneN Yay! Now I really love being 40.
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@DianneN (246849)
• United States
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon . You will love every minute!
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
6 Sep 18
Well good for you-- just start again on a new adventure-- I'm older than you and still want to begin and travel more!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Mary, you are one woman I really admire for enjoying your life and loving it!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 Sep 18
@MarymargII It does. My father wasn't physically attractive but he sure did captured and broken a lot of women's hearts. His secret? His sense of humour.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
8 Sep 18
@toniganzon Why thank you- some times humour helps too.
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
7 Sep 18
Looking good at 40. Great to have such a positive outlook on life in general as well.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Thanks Jim! I always thought I would look fat and old when I reached 40 but I was wrong. Nothing much has changed. I guess having a positive outlook in life is a great help.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
@porwest I have two men in my life and a beautiful lady. Now this is crazy!
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@porwest (78761)
• United States
12 Sep 18
@toniganzon You look like you are doing very well for yourself. There should be a man in your life for sure. If that's not the case, this defines crazy.
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@popciclecold (35103)
• United States
7 Sep 18
You are still young, do what you desire to do. Young don't look to be 40, you look younger.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Thank you. I'm not that young anymore actually but nothing prevents me from doing what I love to do.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
6 Sep 18
I stayed at my sister's in my younger days. They had a few mirrors that reflected differently. Before stepping out I always looked at the mirror that showed me to be good looking. (lol)
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
7 Sep 18
@allknowing (130066)
• India
7 Sep 18
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Thank goodness for mirrors like that.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
7 Sep 18
This is a good attitude to have. Good luck to you!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Thank you. I try my best.
@JudyEv (325793)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Sep 18
Good for you. I'm sure you'll achieve great things - and that's a lovely photo,
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
Thank you Judy.. I will try my best.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Sep 18
I see me! Old but still pretty and starting a new life at 53!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 Sep 18
I love "still pretty!" 53 is still young! You can do so much more at that age.
@dya80dya (33512)
7 Sep 18
I see a sad person.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 Sep 18
That's terrible.