forHER!

@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
September 12, 2018 11:17pm CST
A gloomy Thursday to all from this side of the earth. As the news evolve around the approaching super-typhoon, my neighbors are also busy securing the roofs of their houses. We do not want to experience the same last 2016 with the devastation of the super-typhoon Lawin which brought the whole province to more or less than 2 months total blackout. I was doing my evaluation for my students when my sister reminded me that I have to check her pension in the bank and at the same time withdraw some for her maintenance medications. I therefore went to the city at 10:30 AM and arrived home at 11:25 AM. i will continue with the grades this afternoon. We are good now;there is no word war between us, and I am glad about the calm atmosphere at home. Although I am tired because I walked from the bank to the terminal parking area of tricycles bound here in my locality, I am not showing it to my sister because if I show my exhaustion, the more she shows her exhaustion too. Hahaha! She is just seated watching TV. All for the love, I am doing the errands for her.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
13 Sep 18
Glad you're getting along today.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
yes, thank you. there is a storm coming and we should be at peace with each other. haha
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@deba12 (2951)
• India
13 Sep 18
We sometimes have to pretend a lot in front of people we love. Good to hear that everything is fine on your side.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
i don't pretend. i just hide what and how i feel to her. i love her as she is my only sister and the oldest among my siblings.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
You are a kind sibling. Your sister doesn't want to take care of you so, she plays being the one in pain and tired at all times. What would happen if you don't mind her at all?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
@ridingbet I am glad you have a give and take relationship then.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Sep 18
@SIMPLYD oh yes my lady. i GIVE, and she TAKES!.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
no, she takes care of me. i take care of her too. but i know what to do when i feel any symptoms of my ailment. she is just hyper- when she feels something. as what my big brother says, "she (i) know what to do because she (i) am a nurse".
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
13 Sep 18
You are such a good sister. She is lucky to have you.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
14 Sep 18
@ridingbet ahh same as my sisters. They also take care of the house. You are such a good sister.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Sep 18
@Mavic123456 i guess we have to stay here at home because my 2 older brothers have their own houses in the capital city while one has in UK and our youngest, at the back of our house in his own land lot.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
i am also lucky to have her because she stays at home with us, as she is the self-designated caretaker of our ancestral house.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
13 Sep 18
Sometimes it's better to say nothing so the peace reigns in the family.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
14 Sep 18
@ridingbet Faint not to hear, ignore her. She talks because she knows that this irks you.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
i agree. but sometimes even if i keep quiet, she keeps on talking and that irks me most.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
@LadyDuck hahaha! yes, i do that often. she should not, she knows i have a heart ailment, if i get serious with my health, there is no one to blame but her.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
13 Sep 18
It is good you are keeping the calm between you and your sister @ridingbet . I hope you all will be safe during the storm, Ingrid, and that there will not be any serious damage.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
20 Sep 18
@ridingbet the footage on the news was so disturbing to see, I can't imagine being part of that, Ingrid. I hope you and your loved ones are safe and sound.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
thank you. the storm is extending its winds and rains here now, but it is not as strong as last 2016 as of yet. the eye of the typhoon might come tomorrow at dawn and this is what we are hoping against.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Sep 18
@bluesa during the night when the typhoon was in my city, we felt the earth really shake. i was thinking the most horrible that our house might be blown away, or if the ceilings will be flown away.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
We really have to get ready for this typhoon. Stay safe!
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
thank you. my place will be a direct hit but i hope it won't be as strong as Lawin 2 years ago where we had blackout for more or less 2 months.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
13 Sep 18
It is worth making some concessions for the sake of the people we love, and that will bring peace.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
i agree with you. it won't be nice at all if i meet her anger with my outburst. there has to be one with a calm mind and emotions.
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@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Sep 18
I am glad you are doing ok.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
thank you. it is peace between us now that there is a typhoon coming over.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
That's what loving sister is for. There is harmony in your home and I can feel the sweet music from you. Gloomy now, take care there. Charge you mobile phones and laptop.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
my phones are charging even though it reaches a hundred percent, i have to charge it.
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
13 Sep 18
I hope all is well
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
yes, all should be well.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
14 Sep 18
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
13 Sep 18
You are such an honorable and good sister. I pray for your safety in this typhoon.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Sep 18
@Courage7 the internet was back few days ago and our electricity last Friday. i cannot reach the minimum but i am still trying to.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
thank you. i hope Ompong will spare our region from its wrath
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
14 Sep 18
@ridingbet Okay trying to keep up with your posts my friend. Hope all is well for you
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
13 Sep 18
That's so nice of you. Sometimes, we learn to set aside our feelings because there are more important things to look to especially when it is trying times. Keep safe.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
14 Sep 18
thanks. yes, i sometimes (SOMETIMES DAW, O!) concede when we have discussions because i do not want to stress my ailing heart.