Doing a bad thing to earn a lot.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 18, 2018 4:02am CST
Early today, I woke to the brawling of my two Brothers. They exchange heated words. At first, I don't know why they are fighting. Then as I heard them, they are fighting about the sales they have. They have been together for a month and a half now for selling Durians here. My 3rd Brother was their financer and the one who harvest Durian in a secret farm so that they can sell it. The brawling began when my 4th Brother noticed my 2nd Brother filching some money. One time he asks money to buy food because he was hungry while they are selling but instead of giving him 2nd Brother did not. He was furious and went home to eat dinner. Then today, they estimated how much they earn in selling, they losses a lot. My 3rd brother was furious but he understands my 2nd Brother. As the result. He was not part of the group anymore. I feel pity for my 2nd Brother. I know he has a lot of kids to feed, but thinking of filching some money to earn a lot is not a good thing. He is new to this kind of business and I know he is trying to learn and what he did is not acceptable. I hope he will find his place somewhere and promise himself not to do this kind of thing, or else no one will ever trust him again. (My 2nd Brother is the one whom I mentioned here, the drunkard in my previous post.)
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@just4him (306239)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Sep 18
I hope he learns and comes to good in his life.
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@just4him (306239)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem That's good you wish him well.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Sep 18
@just4him Yes, he is my Brother and no sister will like to have a bad life for his siblings.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
I still wish him to prosper. I know he's been a lot of troubles before.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
18 Sep 18
Oh my. That is something you should not do especially with family. Family is family while you can always earn money or borrow money from your family. That is sad that money usually is the cause of fight for families.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
I told him that my 3rd Brother understands him that is why he did not argue with him anymore since he has a lot of kids to feed.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
18 Sep 18
@JustBhem that is true but he should humble himself to say sorry to his brothers too. I hope so.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
@rakski Nah, since he is the eldest among the Brothers. I doubt if he can. I still wish him to prosper.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Sep 18
Sometimes, having less is a temptation for others to cheat in order to have more. I hope your brother will learn his lesson. And I hope he apolgizes for what he has done.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Sep 18
@JustBhem That's not good. Pride is one of the social sins.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
@SIMPLYD Yes. He is like that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
My second Brother is the hardest one. He does not say sorry since he was the oldest of some of my Brothers.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
18 Sep 18
Your second brother should go out and find a job, he does not have money to feed the kids but he has money to buy drinks??? This is unacceptable.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
18 Sep 18
@JustBhem Are you brothers making money with Durians? I hope he is happy with this job.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
@LadyDuck Yes, they are.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
He quit his job as a laborer in the wet market and went with my 4th Brother selling Durians. We noticed that he is not drinking anymore since he sells durians.
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@JudyEv (325776)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Sep 18
It is a shame he did this as the other brothers will not trust him now.
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@JudyEv (325776)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem If he is allowed back in, I hope he has learnt his lesson.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
Yes, it saddened me. I talked to my 3rd Brother to have him a second chance, and he said he will consider. He is also worried about his kids too.
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
18 Sep 18
Many people do that, it's just human nature because we are weak. We give in to temptation and we always envy the ones that have more than us. Plus, a family business has this kind of problems quite often. He did wrong, your 2nd brother, he should apologize and get out of this business. But I fear that if he does such things, then no business is good for him .
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
No business is good for him. Yes. For how many times he is into business and all of them are not successful. I still pray for him to prosper one day.
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@Kasjnak (4492)
• Romania
18 Sep 18
@JustBhem that's very nice of you. Hopefully he'll get on the right track, but from what you said it seems he is a lost case. Still, you never know, God works in mysterious ways, right?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
@Kasjnak Well, I prayed for his Family and kids. That's the least I can do since I don't have a lot.
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• Philippines
18 Sep 18
This is why I don't just get into relationship and have kids. Now, he's trapped in this responsibility and drinking is his only relief.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
18 Sep 18
I hope that your brother smartens up.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
I wish too. Thanks.
@YrNemo (20261)
18 Sep 18
Don't think you will be lucky unless his wife is the stronger who prefers to move.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
What do you mean?
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
18 Sep 18
Eventhough my brother has difficulty making ends meet, he always want to pay what he owes to me which I decline. He insists, I decline.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Sep 18
You have a good Brother. My siblings have a different attitude.