Another rock to beat her head.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 18, 2018 12:18pm CST
My ex-best friend was already free from the pain she had with her kids Father. For almost 10 years of staying with him and living a difficult life, finally, she is free of any sorrowful heartbreak. I find out that she is back living with her Mother and her two kids. As she tried to build her new life, she is back to square one. She got a job, she's back with friends and other activities. Somehow I am happy for her. What makes me irk is the fact that he got another rock to beat her head again. She found another love. I don't know whether I should be happy with that part or not. I thought she learn her lesson. Why she can't focus on her kids instead. Do you think I should let it pass? Or just be move on. Anyway, it's her life.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Sep 18
It is her life, maybe her mother wants her and the kids to have a new home and not in here, you never know. But if she is an ex friend why would it matter to you? Not being mean I am just curious.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Well, her Mother doesn't care for her at the first place. If she does, she won't let her daughter steal someone's husband and make her daughter's life miserable. No Mother should let her daughter live an unhappy life. She is my ex- best friend. Yes. I let her go because she chooses the guy over me, over our friendship. And what she did was not acceptable. Stealing someone's husband from a friend is a bad thing to reconsider. It matters to me because she is everywhere near our mutual friends. She is around. She tries to make friends with me again, and I still have a second thought.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 18
@andriaperry In love matters the least you say, the better it is. Should she follow Bhem "advice" and be unhappy she will blame Bhem forever.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
@LadyDuck At least she knows that I never gave her a loser advice before.
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
18 Sep 18
I would prefer to dedicate my time to my children cut maybe this new boyfriend is different.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
I know her. She cannot live without someone.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Sep 18
@nela13 I guess, still want to have something to scratch the scar.
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@nela13 (55700)
• Portugal
25 Sep 18
@JustBhem there are people that can't stay away from bad relationships.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Sep 18
There's always a second chance as they say. And it is said that if you fail the first time, the second time could be a success. She took her chance on love. I hope it will be nice this time.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Sep 18
@JustBhem Oh,she really is unlucky in love. Oh my, she had an abortion! Poor unwanted baby of hers.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Sep 18
@kepweng Oh, that is sad.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Actually, it is not her first time. It's her 3rd time. The first time, was she got pregnant and decided to have an abortion. Cruel, right? The second time was the first time too. Lol. She did not learn her lesson after having an abortion. The 3rd one she thought her forever, sad to say, aside from her the guy cheated for many times, they have 2 kids. Come to think about it. The guy lives in their house while she and her kids in a renting room somewhere near the guy's house. She cannot go to the guy's house because the guy's father does not approve of her and still pushing herself to that guy.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
18 Sep 18
Move on and lets do something nice here.Sounds like trouble there and you do not need this.I hate drama
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Me too.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem good morning
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
19 Sep 18
Oh, I hope this time it will work for her.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
I hope Sol. Why Ugly Duckling? Ahhh...
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem Because everyone deserves a happy ending, Bhem.. Oh, I misread. I thought you asked me why I said so. hehe
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
@sol_cee And she deserves one. I remember the story of the Ugly Duckling.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
18 Sep 18
well, she is your ex-friend, why even waste a second thinking about her well being?
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
19 Sep 18
@JustBhem - well, im sure shed probably feel better if she knew that someone who wasnt judgemental still cared for her.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Let just say, I still care for her? Is that enough?
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
19 Sep 18
Do not stick your nose in love matters. Some women are happy with their kids, some women need to have a man to trust and to love. Let her do her own choices and do not say a word.
@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Sep 18
I think just try not to think about it. Everyone needs someone to love and to love them but often a wife who has been abused chooses a similar partner second time around. So she might be heading for trouble.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Yes, that is what I'm thinking. I know her as she cannot live without someone. Why does she cannot focus on her kids? Instead of having someone who will get her pregnant then leave her again.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
18 Sep 18
Yes it is her life. Let's hope that this time she has found someone who will treat her right.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
I hope so. Knowing her. I still don't know.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
18 Sep 18
If she is an "ex" friend, just wish her well and move on. Don't get caught up in her drama.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
The problem is, she is everywhere. We have the same mutual friends and everywhere I can see her.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
19 Sep 18
Maybe she wants to feel love from a man maybe because even though she lasted 10 years with someone she never felt that real love so she needs to feel it . Maybe ? Not sure...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Sep 18
Why not focus her love to her kids instead of finding another pain? She is not young to have another one and besides who wants excess baggage?