Parenting
By Aleks
@Alekss (4)
September 25, 2018 1:48pm CST
How did you felt when you found out you're about to be a parent? Did you thought about how's it gonna be? I'm 22, i became a mom 4 months ago, and to be honest, i never felt better. It's true, i don't sleep, i don't eat and i have zero time for myself, but when i see her little blue eyes i just melt. I'll never regret becoming a mom that early...
Me and my girl are alone all day, husband is working all the time???? and i have to do all by myself, i'm tired, exhausted, don't know what to cook tomorrow lol, but im so happy and grateful for my little princess.
I would like to hear your stories. Does your partner helps with baby and house jobs, how do you organize yourself through the day? Does your mom or your mother in law helps? :)))
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7 responses
@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
26 Sep 18
I was 15 when I got pregnant. It was planned, so I was happy. But I also surprised myself by being scared once I found out I was pregnant. That passed though as soon as I went to my first doctors appointment.
My mom helped me during the nights, but by choice. As I'd get up no problem when my daughter, but so would my mom and then she would keep telling me to go back to sleep - she had this. 
. So sometimes it was her, others it was me, and then at times we both stayed up with her.
Thankfully my daughter wasn't a big crier in general, so I didn't need much help during the days.
I only had custody of her til she was 3.5 months though, because of her dad. Long story. But she's 10 now and I miss being able to care for her.
. So sometimes it was her, others it was me, and then at times we both stayed up with her.
Thankfully my daughter wasn't a big crier in general, so I didn't need much help during the days.
I only had custody of her til she was 3.5 months though, because of her dad. Long story. But she's 10 now and I miss being able to care for her.2 people like this
@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
26 Sep 18
@debjani1 i dont believe in god, and i do feel guilty because kids should be with their parents.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Sep 18
i was like you when i became a mom first time and actually pretty much 4 out of 5 of my kids. yes my first made me very happy
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@ShyBear88 (59306)
• Sterling, Virginia
26 Sep 18
When I first found out I was going to be a mom I was scared who wouldn’t be. After having my first it was hard because t was just me most of the time and my husband work a job that barely paid anything so it was a struggle. Then baby 2 came along and we moved start out again with nothing raising 2 kids mostly myself with more help from family this time since we moved closers baby 3 came long and now I do most of the patently alone but when my husband isn’t working he has a great job and school now. When he is home he helps out taking care of the kids helping with homework, cooking dinner helps clean. He’ll do whatever is need so I can get done sooner and enjoy my free time like him. It’s a team work and it doesn’t work when only one puts in everything and the other puts in nothing.
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@anya12adwi (6059)
• India
27 Sep 18
I am single but I would be scared of becoming a mother.. She has undergo many hardships physically
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• Germany
25 Sep 18
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