When in pain, do you say something harsh?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
October 2, 2018 11:12pm CST
Good day myLotters. I'm still not okay. My right knee still hurts and I need to walk slowly because of the pain. My butt is okay but I need soft thing so that I can properly sit on. But it took me a lot of struggles during the night because I need to position my right leg. I hope, this will end. Today, I don't have plans but to rest and stay in my room, the usual. I'm not in the talking mood with my youngest Brother. He deserves to be treated that way. And I despise his transgender girlfriend and block them on my Facebook account too. They are both immoral. This transgender girlfriend is the one who did to us because he manipulates him. I know someday he will regret this.
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@JudyEv (326373)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Oct 18
I hope your knee improves with rest.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 18
Oh, I hope so. I don't want this pain anymore.
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@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
@JustBhem take rest and follow the advice of the doctor. You will be well soon.
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• United States
3 Oct 18
Sorry to hear about the pain and your youngest brother & his g/f. When I am in pain, sometimes I may blurt out something harsh. Hope you get better soon!
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• United States
4 Oct 18
@JustBhem yes it is! because we're not feeling well and in pain or hurt, etc. that is fine we're only human & its natural =)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 18
Yes, I think it's natural right? Thanks.
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@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
@JustBhem yes it's natural.
@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
I hope all is well with you and I hope you feel better soon. As for your brother and his girlfriend, well, they will not realuze those things yet.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 18
And I hope someday. They will. Thanks.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
@JustBhem yes, I hope someday soon.
@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
Someone are very special in our life. So if they use harsh languages we can't take it.
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
When I am sick I easily temper.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 18
Me too. I get easily annoyed.
@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
@JustBhem get well soon.
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@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
Is it happen with all people?
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• Philippines
3 Oct 18
I feel you. When I am in pain or not feeling well, I tend to act differently, like be cranky all day, say things that I never meant to say, etc. Feel better soon, Bhem. Take care
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 18
I do that too. Just like yesterday, I was in too much pain because of my brother's foul mouth. He didn't think of us her sister anymore.
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@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
@JustBhem hey be positive.
@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
Not always but sometimes when I am in pain I use some harsh words.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Oct 18
Especially if someone dear to us says something harsh.
@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
@JustBhem yes it's true if the person is so close to u then it hurts.
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
You need to sit / lie something soft if the problem is on the pelvis. The replacement comforter was so lowered right now because I was too heavy for it. It's gonna hurt if the bed / sit it's not soft. Better stay away from conversation. How did you get that inflammatory joint? mine still hurt but at least I can sleep completely now unlike before.
@LadyDuck (459629)
• Switzerland
3 Oct 18
I have the feeling that your young brother appreciates the money that this transgender girlfriend sends to him, this is not good that she does this to keep him attached.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
3 Oct 18
It somewhat sounds to me that he is manipulating the girlfriend. Does she know that the money she gives him isn't used for his studies?
@just4him (307688)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Oct 18
I'm sorry about the situation you are going through. I hope you will feel better soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Oct 18
Thanks, Val. I know this too shall pass.
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@lovebuglena (43103)
• Staten Island, New York
3 Oct 18
I tend to curse when I am in pain...
@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
3 Oct 18
I hope you feel better. Yes, sometimes I'm a little sharp if I don't feel good. I don't like it, but sometimes that happens. Sorry there are issues with your brother and his girlfriend.
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
3 Oct 18
When i am not in a mood to talk because of pain, then i tell my parents that i have no patience, please don't make me talk.even if they do then i get irritated
@vsai2008 (11796)
• India
3 Oct 18
@debjani1 that's why i tell them beforehand if i am in pain and want to rest, i dont want to be angry on them. But sometimes it cant be helped
@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
@vsai2008 why this happen bcoz our mind is not in our control?
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@debjani1 (7207)
3 Oct 18
No I never told them that I am not in a mood to talk. But I react badly when they talked to me.
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@Asktece (29)
• Uniontown, Pennsylvania
4 Oct 18
Your brother sounds younger than you and very nieve. It's normal to lash out when your sick in my family. We either feel guilty later and apologize or pretend it didn't happen. Or ignore family members and call crying when theirs a tragic accident. Then back to ignoring.
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@May2k8 (18100)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 18
I might still be able to withstand the pain, but my mother always said harshly when she felt pain.
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
no, i would usually say, Mamang, or Papang, and the most is ''Dios ko''.
@Plethos (13560)
• United States
3 Oct 18
i say all kinds of things when im in pain.