Im a married woman but i get attracted to woman too.

October 13, 2018 5:35am CST
something strange is happening to me..all of a sudden i started to get attracted to woman im married with kids and i discover i am bisexual i am attracted to both sexes this is something weird and often times i get depressed because i cannot accept who i am it bothers me a lot i dont know if i need to open this up to my husband im afraid he might misunderstood me.n[b][/b]
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@orlamie (13)
• Bamako, Mali
13 Oct 18
You need prayer that's all what you need by the way when did you discover that is it since you are a child or what and I also feel sorry for your condition you know what with God all things are possible and NO CONDITIONS IS PERMANENT that is when you can pray please be prayerful. God bless you
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• Bamako, Mali
13 Oct 18
@jadin2018 I think you shouldn't tell him yet let assuming you are the husband how will you feel if you hear such a thing the first step you need to take now is to go back to God and tell Him your heart pray to him and He will direct on what to do you might have been wandering how would He direct everyone have way by which they communicate with God it may be by dream or vision and many more you need to invite God to intervene on this particular situation.
13 Oct 18
thanks dear its so hard....you know the feelings where you dont know your real identity
13 Oct 18
i always think that way.. if i tell to him maybe in the future he will accept as who i am
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@debjani1 (7207)
13 Oct 18
If u are afraid to talk to ur husband then you can go to the councillor. I think slowly and gradually you can come out of it.
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13 Oct 18
yeah i am already considering that my depression is acting up...i
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
13 Oct 18
Counseling by a qualified person may help
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13 Oct 18
yeah im still a little afraid
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
13 Oct 18
That's really hard to think and even hard to make decisions. Your husband might misunderstood your feelings and might cause misunderstanding between you two. Pray hard my friend to give you strength and so that your decisions will be guided.
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13 Oct 18
thank you dear i am just an ordinary woman having an extra ordinary situation..i dont know i am not a lesbian i am not also a full shaped woman i dont know i am in between
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
13 Oct 18
I hope its only admiration. I know some married women have crush on fellow women, long hair, beautiful eyes, flawless skin, kissable lips... but it just stays like that, they didnt comit relationship with them.
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13 Oct 18
@ilocosboy but mine more than that like a romantic feeling an attraction that i cannot explain haaa... i dont know
@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
13 Oct 18
I guess you will never know until you actually tell him.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
13 Oct 18
@jadin2018 it's a challenge for sure
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13 Oct 18
i know honesty can set us free but it takes so much courage to tell him
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13 Oct 18
@Ladanger very much.. i love my husband
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13 Oct 18
That's misunderstood problem
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13 Oct 18
yeah i know i just hope my kids wont be like me
@AmbiePam (85660)
• United States
13 Oct 18
I think you need to be honest with your husband. Maybe try marriage counseling. As long as you don't act on your feelings you will be okay. There are famous actresses who are married, but they claim to be bisexual. However, when they made a commitment to their husband, they knew they were forsaking all others, including women. It doesn't change their love for their spouse. People can't help being attracted, but they can control acting on it.