see you my best friend

my best friend
@leny34 (8506)
Sidoarjo, Indonesia
November 10, 2018 11:19am CST
finally arrived at the end point of me and my friendship he decided to end a friendship. he said to me "we'd better end up our friendship if you don't love me" I have no choice over his decision ... because it is impossible for me to be his lover, actually I have told him, that we can still be brothers even though we are not lovers. but he decided not to know me again and finish our friendship, I thought if it was his decision I would accept it ... I hope he gets better than me. forgive me for not being able to love you..................
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PaintsOnSlate
@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
10 Nov 18
Don't worry, you are young and you should meet many nice men and choose the right one, and when it comes, you will know the right one.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
10 Nov 18
@leny34 But by all means, Don't wait too long and become an old maid!!!!
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
@db20747 ha ha ha... I am sure someday I will find it to live with me
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
yes indeed I am still too young to choose a lover ... and my future is still long, so I decided not to have a lover at this time, because I was still focused on my work
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Hillary Ralston
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I'm sorry to hear that happened to your friendship, I don't think it's right tho for him to end it because he wants to be more than friends. Maybe one day you will be friends again.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
I hope so, but I don't think it's possible because he really wants to leave forever
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Hillary Ralston
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
10 Nov 18
@leny34 that's a shame and I'm sorry that he feels that way.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
@hillhjill yes maybe he thinks that this is the best choice for him
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Heather Echola
@GardenGerty (157563)
• United States
11 Nov 18
It is a hard choice but you are being truthful and honest with him.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
yes I am always honest with him ... I don't like to lie to people, honest is my habit
Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
11 Nov 18
That is part of growing up
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130064)
• India
11 Nov 18
@leny34 As one gets older one comes across situations such as yours.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
what growth do you mean?
putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
@allknowing no and I'm sure maybe now isn't the time
Anna
@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
10 Nov 18
I am sorry that he took this decision, but it would have not worked anymore if he was in love with you.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
11 Nov 18
@leny34 It is so sad that he refuses to be your friend.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
yes actually I don't want him to make this decision, I just want him to be my friend, but he refuses
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
@LadyDuck yes, maybe it was his choice ... I will accept it
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CarolDM
@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Nov 18
As I have been telling you there is plenty of time for you to find love.
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
10 Nov 18
@leny34 Is he not your type!!??
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
@db20747 This isn't a type of problem, but I still don't want to have a lover
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
yes, it's true, I don't want to love him
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
11 Nov 18
I think he needs to accept it.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137213)
• Philippines
11 Nov 18
@leny34 I think it is part of life. People come and go.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
@Shavkat yes, that is life, sometimes we always feel lost
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
yes he will forget me forever
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RedRed
@redtesha (1773)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 18
Well I hope you get better future with better man. I do think selfish is not good and not healthy in relationship. End friendship because get heart broken is something I think ridiculous but I hope the best for both of you.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
12 Nov 18
I am not heartbroken just why I made this decision ... even though we have been friends for a long time
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Marlina
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
11 Nov 18
Better that way. Plenty of time for this later on.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
yes I still have plenty of time to make my choice because I don't want to be in a hurry
Shiva
@Shiva49 (26204)
• Singapore
11 Nov 18
When there is no meeting of minds, it is better to accept this outcome and move on - siva
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Shiva
@Shiva49 (26204)
• Singapore
11 Nov 18
@leny34 It is better to go individual ways and part as friends - siva
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
@Shiva49 yes maybe that would be better for him
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
what do you mean continue?
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
10 Nov 18
He's a cute guy!! The same happened to me after so many years!! I loved him but don't know what to do!! Sorry he ended the friendship!! He should remain your brother!! It is hard to be friends with someone you love!!!
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
10 Nov 18
@leny34 I mean it's hard for him to be friends with someone he loves!!! But he should still remain friends!!!!
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
i don't love him .. he is the one who loves me but I just want him to be my friend not to love me
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
@db20747 yeah maybe like that ... but in my opinion true friends are more valuable
Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
10 Nov 18
Nothing to feel bad about end of relationship.I hope you will find a right person in the future.
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
10 Nov 18
@leny34 that's the positive spirit..stay strong enough :) Hope your day is good.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
yes thank you, you are a good friend, because it always gives me encouragement
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
@Icydoll yes my day is good for now, and how is your day now?
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
•
11 Nov 18
Maybe it’s not yet the right time.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
•
11 Nov 18
@leny34 definitely!
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
yes, and I'm sure if one day when the time is right I will get the best
DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7207)
•
10 Nov 18
I don't agree with your friend. No relation is bigger than friendship. He is really a fool to break the relationship with you. Don't worry. We are here to be friends to you. So enjoy. I'm sure one day he will realise his mistake.
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DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7207)
•
11 Nov 18
@leny34 very good. Remember we never let u go.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
@debjani1 yes I am really very happy to hear this all
putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
thank you, you are very kind ... and I'm really very lucky to be here because I have friends like you and others
hereandthere
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
11 Nov 18
it's good you were honest with him about your feelings (that he's only a friend and a brother to you) and it's better that the decision to end the friendship came from him, not you. maybe you're not yet ready because you have other priorities, like your job and your parents/family.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
I explained everything, but he still didn't want to understand,
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Bojel
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
10 Nov 18
Don't be sad about it. You will find other person better than him.
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
yeah hope so ,, and I'm sure someday I will find it
Alfredo Rossi
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I also would not worry about this.Enjoy the single life before you become serious
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
10 Nov 18
yes ,, in my opinion we still have many choices in life that are still single ,, and I still want to pursue my achievements
nawala
@nawala123 (20852)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 18
that is your choice. good job . you make your own history
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putri
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
11 Nov 18
this is her choice not me ... she decided not to be friends with me