Are you content with your life?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
November 18, 2018 7:16pm CST
It would be so easy for me to recover if only those people around me are very understanding of my situation. There are times that I needed to beg just to get that cup or make coffee for me. Unlike before, I was able to do the things I want without hurting my feet and my hands. And to be honest, even walking or doing some things makes me ache already. Sometimes I hide in this four corners of my room and cry. Then here's the Mother who always gives me undelightful thing. She always cusses and yelling most of the time. Then gossips other people. These kind of things are draining me. Plus my Brothers who sometimes not giving their full support to me. I know life is too unfair and as if I have something to do with it. Somehow I am thankful because whenever I am outside the house and with the boyfriend I feel so free and the pain in my chest feel better. That is why I like to stay in the center or in the Hospital. I hope by next year everything will be okay for me. Also, I hope these changes and suffering will make me better next year. The photo is me a long time ago.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Nov 18
That picture depicts a happy person, unlike what you really are with your unsupportive mother and brothers. Though, God has given you a boyfriend who is supportive, so I think it is true to a cliche that says, you cannot have it all. Just keep praying for your family. One day, they will realize you need their support and help.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
20 Nov 18
@JustBhem They're not friends if they avoid you already because you are already sad. It's their chance to be the ones making you happy now.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
A friend told me, I'm a happy person because I can make them laugh. I can make them feel better whenever they are weary. Maybe it's one of the reasons they are not with me anymore because I'm already sad.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 18
@SIMPLYD Or I should say, they are not friends anymore.
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@kobesbuddy (74594)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Nov 18
A very pretty photo, of you Bhem:) When you get out, it's enjoyment that makes you feel better.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
Yes, Kharla and I kind of miss that feeling. Hopefully, If I will be okay. I look forward to going outside.
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@kobesbuddy (74594)
• East Tawas, Michigan
19 Nov 18
@JustBhem Go outdoors as often as possible.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
@kobesbuddy I will try Kharla, once my legs and feet are okay.
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• United States
1 Jan 19
Hello! I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I truly hope everything goes well in the New Year for you. I've been sick as of late and am going to see the doctor soon. It can be very frustrating to want to do many things but your body just won't let you. I hope your health greatly improves soon, best wishes.
• United States
2 Jan 19
@JustBhem Happy New Year, you're very welcome. Good, I hope this year brings good health to you. :)
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
1 Jan 19
Hi, there Francesca. Thank you for that uplifting words. I will make it this time to be better. Happy New Year.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Jan 19
@fransmonlot And I'm praying hard for it too. Thanks.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
19 Nov 18
This is a very nice photo Bhem. I am so sorry that your family does not support you better. At least your brothers should help you more.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
19 Nov 18
@JustBhem You will be healthy again, do not give up.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
@LadyDuck I will Anna.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
Thanks, Anna. That was a long time ago when I was still healthy.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
Nice photo! Well, sometimes we have to live what life has to give and be positive on the challenges that comes along the way. I the next year will be much better for all of us.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
@JustBhem With prayers and positivity, I hope so too. I hope you really a good health next year and for all of us here too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Nov 18
Thank you for that @rakski .
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Nov 18
I hope so because this year is bad for me. Cheers to next year and hopefully, I will recover soon enough.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
20 Nov 18
So sorry you dont have much support and help.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
21 Nov 18
@JustBhem cant say that I will, as we cant just have a good day.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Nov 18
@Courtlynn It's our choice for us for having a good day.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 18
I get used to it Courtney. Thank you for dropping by. Always have a good day, okay?
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
19 Nov 18
Well, most of us would love to have more of what we have in life. I own a house, but I would love to have a big house as big as the White House where president trump lives. I would love to have a BMW car in addition to my Ford. There are so many things I would love to have... like a second lovely wife and a young pretty girlfriend .... hehehe.
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
20 Nov 18
@JustBhem I will! Hahaha
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 18
Yay, and I know you can still have them. Fight! lol.
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@DianneN (246906)
• United States
19 Nov 18
You are such a pretty girl, and hopefully your life will be free of pain soon. It's a shame that your family is not more understanding of what you are going through.
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@DianneN (246906)
• United States
19 Nov 18
@JustBhem It's unfortunate that you can't change people.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
Yes, I know I am used to this but it would be much better if they do.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
@DianneN I believe that.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
21 Nov 18
let us still be thankful for the graces and life given to us.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
21 Nov 18
I am still thankful.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
19 Nov 18
Lovely photo. It would be nice if your relatives are very supporting to you. I wish you will have a better life as soon as possible. Don't loss hope. God is with you.
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@thelme55 (76476)
• Germany
19 Nov 18
@JustBhem sorry about that. I hope they will change.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
@thelme55 I am still praying for it.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
How I wish they are 100% supportive but sad to the booth, they can only give their full support if only they see me in the hospital bed not moving at all.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
19 Nov 18
Never lose hope cha .You are very sweet person ..I'm hoping for the best to you .
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 18
Thank you so much Icy doll.
@Bullshark (3477)
• Netherlands
19 Nov 18
Always look on the bright side of life, dear Bhem... :)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 18
Thanks.
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@Janet357 (75656)
19 Nov 18
They say, than true friends can be met in time of need. When you have nothing, you will know who really loves and cares for you. When you are a nobody, you have few friends. I had been there. Though my situation was different from yours.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
I have one friend who always messages me on Facebook and always asking me if I'm okay. So far she is the only person who always does that. Some friends just like to read my sentiments on Facebook.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
@Janet357 I believe that.
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@Janet357 (75656)
19 Nov 18
@JustBhem true friends are hard to find.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
19 Nov 18
very beautiful photo, is your boyfriend taking that photo?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
Thanks. That was taken a long time go when I was still not sick. My best friend was the one who took that photo and he is now in heaven.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
19 Nov 18
@JustBhem what do you mean he is in heaven?
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@JudyEv (325854)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Nov 18
It must be really hard to cope when those around you are so unsupportive.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
Yes, it's hard indeed.
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
19 Nov 18
Pray to GOD for your recovery. Dont lose hope and just keep on praying.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Nov 18
Thank you, Janice. I will.
• Philippines
19 Nov 18
You are very pretty, Bhem. I hope everything will be okay on your end. Just don't lose hope. And I hope your family will be supportive, understanding, loving, selfless, etc.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Nov 18
Thank you, Maria, I want to believe I am beautiful. I think it will never change because they think I have enough which really I don't have that is why they are not 100% supportive of me.
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