Should I apologize?

@kimian55 (132)
Alamogordo, New York
November 30, 2018 2:22pm CST
This is a long story but this is interesting, so please read. I came from a small town and I'm 29 now, 14 years ago. I disrespected a girl from a powerful family. I said that she's not a virgin anymore. And her entire family went ballistic. Long story short, her dad was an army general. Her uncle's the mayor And her cousins beat me up when I was 15. His cousins beat me up. I deserved that. My uncle, who was also an army officer, called her dad and told him to stop harassing me. We went to the same college, never said "hi or hello" to each other, even in times we met on social occasions like parties, clubs etc..(we belong to a small community) Just tonight, me and my friends were hanging out at a club, who she's acquainted with... so she went to our table saying, she had not idea, I got beat up by his cousins, that I almost got killed. OK, given..that she was drunk. I was also a bit. I told her "water under the bridge", she invited us to her table and then she said to our group "Jared, were friends right!?" I said no "No we're not." She was like "Oh..." And I said, "go back to your group, you're drunk" and again she was adamant that we fix things and become ok,.. and she was referring to me as, "that f@cing guy", she said "I didn't know that f@cing guy got beat-up", "I just came her to apologize" i said "you're forgiven" and she said like "No,no,no,..it's water under the bridge", I replied "Why bring it up?" she said blahblah... I said "Get lost" She had was shocked, she left. Anyway, I was drunk. Do you think I should call her house and apologize to her?
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
30 Nov 18
I don't understand why you should ask a community of strangers what you should do. Nobody here knows the details and could give a reasonable piece of advice. You're old enough to know this yourself.