BETRAYED BY SOMEONE YOU TRUST OR BETRAYED BY FAMILY MEMBER WHICH HURT MOST?

@Shatay (66)
Nigeria
December 10, 2018 1:59pm CST
I recently realized everybody i trust end up hurting me either with lies or stabbing me in the back or deceiving me but the worst is when i needed the one person the most to be there for me in my darkest hour and nobody. It hurts but i moved passed it and distanced myself from them all then now they need something from me and they are all pretending nothing happened after i heard all they said behind my back. Please what do i do? should i tell them i know what they all said and what they did for not being there for me when i needed them or just say no to them and move on?
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@TheHorse (206085)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Dec 18
To me, any betrayal of trust is hurtful.
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@vandana7 (98873)
• India
10 Dec 18
Sigh...you stole my wisdom ..you betrayed my trust.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
10 Dec 18
both hurt. family hurts because youre born into one, no choice. friends hurt because you chose them to be your friend.
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@vandana7 (98873)
• India
10 Dec 18
I think you need to spend more time with yourself first, to understand yourself, and some time with books. Once you know what you like and dislike, and try to understand different natures from books, you will start analyzing others and select better set of friends.
@Shatay (66)
• Nigeria
14 Dec 18
That is actually good advice. Thank you
@debjani1 (7207)
12 Dec 18
You should make them realise that whom are you trusted betrayed you. You have the right to know the reason of your deceived. Its really painful.
@Shatay (66)
• Nigeria
14 Dec 18
Makes sense. Thank you