The Uncertainty of Life

Life and Death
@Shiva49 (26233)
Singapore
December 15, 2018 8:40am CST
Increasingly this thought recurs in my mind; what is there to be done now? I have to concentrate on those that I do not leave behind undone and avoid those that prove a burden to others. It is not easy. I have seen some leave all of a sudden with family members left groping in the dark. There are some who do not want to think about their own parting even when others are dying around them! I realize we have to live life without getting obsessed with death but it is better we plan and jot down what others need do once we make the final exit from here though I believe we are not done with existence yet even after that event! We may still have to repay our dues! Our material possessions are better routed to who we want them to end up with. I have seen the consequences of lack of direction otherwise; it becomes a free-for-all. I am more concerned with leaving a life well-lived and worthy of the blessings showered on me to get more than a glimpse of this enchanting world with variety beyond compare. I am eternally grateful. Do you think on these lines at times? Image: Life and Death from Wikimedia Commons
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
15 Dec 18
That seems to be all I think of lately Siva. Yes I am concentrating on leaving nothing undone. I mostly tho am trying to provide to leave some few dollars to loved one. Not much for sure the way things are going.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
15 Dec 18
How we faced the challenges of life should set an example more than the material possessions. At the end of the day, our integrity, love, and compassion will live after us to inspire those we touched in our lives - siva
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
15 Dec 18
@Shiva49 Well that is nice to think of yes Siva. I hope you will be able to get things to your satisfaction before you leave too and so that you may have some peaceful enjoyable time.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
15 Dec 18
@Courage7 Thank you, I have to do what I can and be more conscious of what to do and what not to do! siva
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@sofssu (23662)
19 Dec 18
I have written an article about this six yers ago.. My thoughts are almost on the same wave length as yours..I was talking to my mom on the phone that afternoon and she was telling me about her plans for the future.. a couple of hours later i get a call from my brother who tells me that my mom had passed on.. the fragility of life shookme up at that moment and changed the way i look at life forever.
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@sofssu (23662)
20 Dec 18
@Shiva49 A touch down to reality and truth.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
20 Dec 18
The beauty of life lies in the uncertainty right to the time we take the return flight. A borderless take eases our ride here; after all, the borders were built by us mostly through prejudice, distrust, greed, and ego - siva
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
15 Dec 18
we got most of this settled.But need to do more
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
16 Dec 18
Yes, it resonates with "a housewife dilemma, work is never done" - siva
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@1creekgirl (40636)
• United States
15 Dec 18
When we're young, we think we'll live forever. Well, actually we will, but not on this earth. We recently bought our headstone for the cemetery and we hzave our wishes typed up for the kids.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
16 Dec 18
Yes, the number is adding up pretty fast now - those I knew leaving one by one. It is good to leave lasting, parting words that defined us while here - siva
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
15 Dec 18
We e thought and acted on that. We don’t want our passing to be a burden on our children. There is always something extra that needs to be done it seems.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
16 Dec 18
@Shiva49 True and so perfect!
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
16 Dec 18
Who else but Gandhi said it so well " Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." The best learning school is right here, wherever we live right now - siva
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@JudyEv (326412)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Dec 18
We do think on these things and we are doing what we can to ensure that those that are left will be able wind up our affairs with the minimum of trouble.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
16 Dec 18
We do what we think is right and leave the rest to settle by themselves - is my credo. Life has to go on generation after generation. We pass on the baton just like what the earlier generations did - siva
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
16 Feb 19
To be very frank, I am ready to face the situation and not scared at all. In fact, I have been waiting for the day with both my arms spread.
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@suni51 (3429)
• India
16 Feb 19
@Shiva49 I am not curious at all! If anything called destiny is true then there is no reason to think about that and if there is nothing after one has spent his days here then it absolutely ends your worries. Cheers!
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
16 Feb 19
@suni51 When people talk about the afterlife, I tell them it can be like before our birth here. I think we could merge with creation in another form with no inkling of who we were earlier - siva
@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
16 Feb 19
Glad to know your positive attitude. I am contented with my life and count my blessings. When the return ticket is confirmed, I will go curious to know what lies ahead! siva
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 19
Like you, I have thought about this and have tried to make things as easy as I can for my family when I'm gone.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
10 Jan 19
Yes, more sweet memories and less of jobs left undone - siva
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• Dallas, Texas
23 Dec 18
I have thought about it a lot myself. A few years ago I took many of my drawings, and writings and threw them away because I felt like I would rather my works not be taken by those who did not know me. In hind sight, I regret that I disposed of many of my works but I have thought enough to try to share some with others online to make sure that when I do leave this world there will be a little bit of me, out there by those who actually appreciate some of my efforts in art and in writing.
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• Dallas, Texas
23 Dec 18
@Shiva49 , That is true.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
23 Dec 18
I know how you feel. I have accumulated a lot at my place where I have been staying for over twenty-six years. I make sure what I dispose of are really those that have to be discarded. Of course, if I have to move, more will fall into that category! Some I will like to retrain though they will have no sentimental value to others - siva
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@dya80dya (33801)
15 Dec 18
Yes, I am thinking in the same way.
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@Shiva49 (26233)
• Singapore
15 Dec 18
I think we all think of such and more so as we get older - siva
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