money or affection?

Kenya
September 11, 2006 6:03am CST
should i go for the guy with a 'fat' wallet or the one with lots of affection?
51 responses
• United States
14 Sep 06
I personally would like a nice even combination of both. Just because you love me doesnt mean I'm going to pay for everything but at the same time just because you are rich doesnt mean I'm going to love you. Works both way...
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@scooter1024 (1243)
• United States
13 Sep 06
I would deffinately say the affection. If you build a relationship on money when its gone you have nothing, but if its built on love and affection you have everything. Money dont buy happiness. I would rather be poor and loved than rich and no love.
• India
13 Sep 06
GO for the one with lots of affection cos your life will be peaceful in that case even if he doesn't have much money . In the other case , You are gonna have lots of problems rght from the start of the relationship .
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@Nivedha (617)
• India
23 Oct 06
affection
• India
17 Dec 06
i prefer with lots of affection . life is good when love is in your life . love makes life beautiful . and it is happen .
@InS1de (64)
• Romania
18 Nov 06
Affection...money can't buy happiness, but it can buy a good divorce lawyer!
@jagades (61)
• India
15 Sep 06
when money is with you,all affections will come to you
@niitta (194)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 06
Well, both are very important in our daily life but the most is love. There's a friend of mine said the husband did not provide at basic need for her and her children but claim that he love the family every much can't afford to lose them .Is it logic ?
• United States
14 Sep 06
go with the one that you are attracted to.. and that you can love and have a physcal realationship with
15 Sep 06
Fat wallet, every time!
@Sandy85 (473)
• India
15 Sep 06
Affection. You will be internally happy.
@a1legend (216)
• India
15 Sep 06
Money make life and life nothing whithout affection so both are important
• United States
14 Sep 06
go for the guy that's sweet and "too nice" dont go for the popular guy.
• United States
23 Oct 06
Affection! I would rather have a really good back rub than be brought out almost anywhere. And I think with the money eventually I would feel like I was being bought off.
@rainbow (6761)
14 Sep 06
affection - it will always be there the full wallet may empty and then what will you have when the designer clothes and posh holidays are gone?
@dellion (6698)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 06
No point if you don't have any feeling with him. Money were very important but am sure we can get the way earn it sooner or later provided you serious about it.
@wsue1023 (1395)
• United States
13 Sep 06
I'd go with whichever guy you love and not get hung up on the wallet. If you go with someone based on the size of their bank account, you're using that person. Don't use people. I can't stand people that use people! A good rule is to always treat others the way you want to be treated. It really isn't that hard is it?
• India
14 Sep 06
Its is better to go with a guy who had a lot of affection. He would surely put all his to make is pocket fat so that he can shower with all good things,,
• India
14 Sep 06
one with lots of affection
@sugga05 (22)
• United States
13 Sep 06
it depends on what kind of person you are. If you are a gold digger, then go for the fat wallet, but be aware that alot of men with money can spot gold diggers a mile away. However, if you want a meaningful relationship, then go for the affection. Material things cant be there when you need support.