"What makes your HEART ACHE?"

@Shavkat (137212)
Philippines
February 24, 2019 9:32am CST
Most of us had experienced this intense feeling. A heartache that cannot be forgotten. For me, it triggers the heartache if there are some people who hurt my immediate family. I must say that I can kill for them. The worst thing that happened to my family is the evilness of the my father's siblings. They had created the scars in our heart. In some occasions, it bleeds when they will do something bad to us. "What makes your heart bleed?" "What do you do if you were hurt by someone?" Image Credit: media.tenor.com
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• Santiago, Chile
24 Feb 19
@Shavkat I am so sorry to hear that. Nowadays it is not easy to handle our own families. In my case, what makes my heart bleed is to see my mom crying. Oh God when I see her cry it is like my world is melting to me. Last time I saw her crying was due to my sister's departure from this country, she moved out with her children. My niece 7 and nephew 4, and my mom was heartbroken cause she would not be able to see them as she used to.
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• Santiago, Chile
25 Feb 19
@Shavkat Thanks for your thoughtful comment. I am sure no body will tease your family ever. :)
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
26 Feb 19
@jvicentevalera I hope, too. I think it is best to be a fighter sometimes.
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• Santiago, Chile
27 Feb 19
@Shavkat We must to be a fighter, otherwise some people might knock us down, and we don't want that, do we?
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• United States
24 Feb 19
The constant suffering of my family.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Feb 19
I can relate to that. It wasn't easy but keeping the family together will make it strong against the villains in the society.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Feb 19
@TiarasOceanView After the long battle with the evil relatives, they released my granny from being in a house arrest. Now, we can see her. She is living in her town. She is 100 years old and running to 101 this year.
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• United States
25 Feb 19
@Shavkat Thats right. I hope that you had resolved those issues I remember Shavkat. How is your Grandmother?
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• Pamplona, Spain
24 Feb 19
It depends on what happens. It depends on who it is and what they do or say, Sometimes words from way back can still hurt me enough just as much as before. Sorry to hear that they are doing their things again. You will win them over. For some things I am tougher and stronger and for others not so much again it all depends.
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• Pamplona, Spain
26 Feb 19
@Shavkat You see being able to be calm cool and collected you have won over them really. Whatever bad they do to you will somehow get back to them in ways they won´t like at all.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
26 Feb 19
@lovinangelsinstead21 I am sure the bad karma will strike on them in time.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Feb 19
My mom and I were talking about the latest thing that they've done. We tend to be in a rage. At the end of the day, we managed to be calm and took it lightly. Since we knew from the start that these evil people cannot pull us down easily. They did so many bad deeds. Because of this, my family and I became more close to each other and ready to face them with fierce.
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• Agra, India
6 Mar 19
When someone I love fails to understand me
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 19
I do think that we tend to feel frustrated sometimes.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 19
• Agra, India
9 Mar 19
@Shavkat yes...that is human nature.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Feb 19
When I lost my only child. I will never have an unbroken heart.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Feb 19
I am sorry to hear that. I can tell that you are still hurting about it. I am sure most parents will feel the same way. I am not a parent yet. However, I see myself as a parent to my niece and nephew. I wanted to set a good example for them.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Feb 19
@Shavkat The hurt is forever, the you lose a child it never goes away. How could it? Enjoy your family.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
26 Feb 19
@CarolDM I am not sure how it feels. But I had experienced the pain when my old man passed away. I know that the level of pain is different from yours.
@Lunali (146)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
9 Mar 19
What makes my heart bleed? Urgh. Well, im really a closed person. Sometimes people think im cold,and that really is not the case. In the past things have happened that i 5hink its easier for me to avoid certain things and people. And thank God i have big intuition and as i get older i listen to it more. I wish i did listen to my intuition in the past more. Well,one life. I guess things happen for a reason.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 19
That's the problem for some people who judge people easily. I do ignore people with such behavior. It is a waste of time.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 19
@Lunali There are some people who said things to someone without thinking. There are no truths about it
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@Lunali (146)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
9 Mar 19
@Shavkat can you explain a little more that what you just said?
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@Tampa_girl7 (49056)
• United States
25 Feb 19
Watching my mama slowly die from Alzheimer's breaks my heart.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
24 Feb 19
I agree, it is so hurtful when close family member do it; I do experience it and feel so down when I think of it. I hope you can get over it.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Feb 19
That would be heartbreaking. In our case, it was the relatives who had this bad intention towards us. Regardless, they can never put us in a bad situation this time. We had seen them got furious about what we stand for. It wasn't for the family, but the right of my old man. They are just being greedy.
@Sheali (7461)
• India
24 Feb 19
If he/she is a close one, I try to solve it.. Otherwise, I just ignore
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
25 Feb 19
Well, that's what we are doing right now. We ignore these people who try to pull us down or put to a difficult situation. In the first place, I don't need to have stress. For me, let them be stressed out for what they did.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
27 Feb 19
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
25 Feb 19
@Shavkat That's a good way to be
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9 Mar 19
It's not nice when those close people hurt you. You need to show that you are a better man than them.
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@Shavkat (137212)
• Philippines
9 Mar 19
It is not a good experience though. But it is better to learn how to fight back. It is not also good that we always let them do this.