Prideful people / myLot

March 14, 2019 12:26am CST

Do you like people who are prideful? You offer help and yet and they dont accept it out of pride? I have met a lot of people like that and i tell you, i dont like it. Have you met some? How do you deal with them?

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Shubhu

@shubhu3 (36464)

• New Delhi, India

14 Mar 19

I have met too. I tend to be at a distance.

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Shubhu

@shubhu3 (36464)

• New Delhi, India

14 Mar 19

@KlyliePot Good.

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Bojel

@jobelbojel (34729)

• Philippines

14 Mar 19

There are two kinds of pride for me. They are pride because they are proud and there are those that are simply prideful,

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Simone

@Janet357 (75656)

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14 Mar 19

Prideful in a negative way is never good. Being proud or happy for something like your child achieves something, thats okay

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Bojel

@jobelbojel (34729)

• Philippines

14 Mar 19

@Janet357 Exactly. Thanks for sharing.

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rebel_woman06

@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

17 Mar 19

Yes, there are people like that indeed. They are so proud that even of they can be perceived as needing help, they won't take your help. If iw were on their shoes, i would accept the help. It wasn't a solicited one, so why be prideful.

Shavkat

@Shavkat (137215)

• Philippines

14 Mar 19

For those people who are having overrated pride, I just ignore them. I personally think that it is fine to keep our pride.

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Simone

@Janet357 (75656)

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14 Mar 19

Yes you are right. I wish i didnt meet them too.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (137215)

• Philippines

15 Mar 19

@Janet357

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PsalmOneCares

@everwonderwhy (6697)

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14 Mar 19

It depends. If they have evidence to be proud about their achievements-- such as million $ success and they affect other people, including me, to be inspired by. I would investigate their secret why they are successful (not necessarily with their wealth, but their richness in their wisdom and integrity.) Usually, they are the ones who do not flaunt their money and assets. I am shy to accept offer of help. Because I can do them myself. Except when I need masculne help to lift things and mow my lawn.

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Simone

@Janet357 (75656)

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14 Mar 19

Their stories are different. Prideful person no.1- her married life is in trouble, but she doesnt like to seek help because she doesnt like people to think her married life is messy.She was a magna cumlaude graduate of psychology but she cannot deal with her husband. She wants everyone to think, she has a perfect life. Prideful person no.2. He thinks everything is possible for him when his capability is so limited. Because he isnt smart at all.

DEBJANI BASAK

@debjani1 (7207)

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14 Mar 19

I met lots of people who are prideful. I just tried to ignore them. I hate such ones.

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Simone

@Janet357 (75656)

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14 Mar 19

Me too. They are hard to deal with.

George B Vieto

@Deepizzaguy (94552)

• Lake Charles, Louisiana

17 Mar 19

I have met a few proud people myself. I just stay from them.