Prideful people

@Janet357 (10131)
March 14, 2019 12:26am CST
Do you like people who are prideful? You offer help and yet and they dont accept it out of pride? I have met a lot of people like that and i tell you, i dont like it. Have you met some? How do you deal with them?
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@shubhu3 (27814)
• New Delhi, India
14 Mar
I have met too. I tend to be at a distance.
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@KlyliePot (4966)
• Cavite City, Philippines
14 Mar
Ignored them
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@shubhu3 (27814)
• New Delhi, India
14 Mar
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@sharon6345 (162157)
• United States
14 Mar
I don't mind as long as I offered it is ok. Everyone's choices are theirs to make.
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
But there are times that you know they need it but they wont accept it. Hey by the way what happened to you? You were not Replying to my responses the other day. I was beginning to think i offended you in one of my responses but i dont think it did happen lol
@sharon6345 (162157)
• United States
15 Mar
@Janet357 I am sorry I am not sure what happened other than me being gone due to extreme pain. I was not offended by anything I promise. And as for them saying no it's perfect for me. I am not begging anyone to take anything from me.
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@Janet357 (10131)
15 Mar
@sharon6345 oh dear, you seem very depressed. What happened? Who hurt you?
@jobelbojel (11061)
• Philippines
14 Mar
There are two kinds of pride for me. They are pride because they are proud and there are those that are simply prideful,
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
Prideful in a negative way is never good. Being proud or happy for something like your child achieves something, thats okay
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@jobelbojel (11061)
• Philippines
14 Mar
@Janet357 Exactly. Thanks for sharing.
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@KlyliePot (4966)
• Cavite City, Philippines
14 Mar
Plenty.. I hate it, its mentally incapacity really hate it! Because that person think them selves that they more brave, more rich and more amazing to other's they think no need help to others!
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
I dont think if he has a lot of friends, so egoistic, i hate it too.
@RodrickH (16109)
• China
14 Mar
No, I always trying to keep away from those people
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@KlyliePot (4966)
• Cavite City, Philippines
14 Mar
True ,much better, just ignored it
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@Shavkat (72322)
• Philippines
14 Mar
For those people who are having overrated pride, I just ignore them. I personally think that it is fine to keep our pride.
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
Yes you are right. I wish i didnt meet them too.
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@Shavkat (72322)
• Philippines
15 Mar
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@TRBRocks420 (94309)
• Banks, Oregon
14 Mar
It can get annoying, especially if you're friends, like we're on the same side lol.
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
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@debjani1 (4628)
14 Mar
I met lots of people who are prideful. I just tried to ignore them. I hate such ones.
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
Me too. They are hard to deal with.
@kepweng (22396)
• United States
14 Mar
most people near me have pride and pretencious
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
How do you deal with them?
• Australia
14 Mar
It depends. If they have evidence to be proud about their achievements-- such as million $ success and they affect other people, including me, to be inspired by. I would investigate their secret why they are successful (not necessarily with their wealth, but their richness in their wisdom and integrity.) Usually, they are the ones who do not flaunt their money and assets. I am shy to accept offer of help. Because I can do them myself. Except when I need masculne help to lift things and mow my lawn.
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@Janet357 (10131)
14 Mar
Their stories are different. Prideful person no.1- her married life is in trouble, but she doesnt like to seek help because she doesnt like people to think her married life is messy.She was a magna cumlaude graduate of psychology but she cannot deal with her husband. She wants everyone to think, she has a perfect life. Prideful person no.2. He thinks everything is possible for him when his capability is so limited. Because he isnt smart at all.
@SIMPLYD (88303)
• Philippines
17 Mar
Yes, there are people like that indeed. They are so proud that even of they can be perceived as needing help, they won't take your help. If iw were on their shoes, i would accept the help. It wasn't a solicited one, so why be prideful.
@Deepizzaguy (17316)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
17 Mar
I have met a few proud people myself. I just stay from them.