I am following you....

@arunima25 (85733)
Bangalore, India
March 18, 2019 11:58pm CST
So today I start my day with posting a discussion and that is very rare of me. I usually attend to notifications or response to few discussions here before I post my own. In fact many a days I do not post any discussion of my own. But this simple idea just popped up and before it gets evaporated or lost I wanted to post it here. Well, many of my ideas of post keep getting lost without being mentioned. I have my alarm set for 1'o clock and it is 10:20 AM here. So I have another two and half hours to be online. I am planning to visit some other sites today which I have not done for quite some time now. Also there are few survey invitations which have to be attended and if I qualify all the three, I might make something decent in an hour. So if I qualify them, I might have less than a hour to be here. So today I thought of exploring MyLot in a different way. There are so many users but I hardly get to interact with a handful ones. I found that I have more followers in numbers than the ones I am following. And it is not always the fact that those I am following are actually following me back or vice versa. So today I am going to follow all those who follow me and also I will try to follow more and more while reading their discussions and responding to them. I want to have more in my interaction group. So whatever time I spend here will be spent in attending to notification and checking that all of those who have sent me notifications today are followed by me here. I might be less active online for next couple of days due to festival of color, Holi. But still I will peep in and try to follow more and more. So many would get a notification about me following them and this will continue for rest few days. And it's your choice to follow me back.. Watch out!! I am following you on MyLot
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
19 Mar 19
Those of us who follow us should ideally be followed back. However, many who follow us remain inactive or occasionally appear on mylot and they either do not write new discussions or write very few. In that case, I think that there is no use 'following' such inactive users. I only follow back a user if s/he writes interesting discussions and believes in interaction. For the sake of record we have already been following each other for quite some time past. Have a nice day.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Mar 19
@arunima25 It is understandable that you cannot be here all the time. Yes, if you want to follow those, who have been following you, there is no harm in it.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Yes we are following each other. I will cal myself periodically active and then going to hibernation for some time. I just wanted to follow some more to get to know few more people here. Moreover, I have not obliged by following all those who follow me. So I am going to do that now.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
@dpk262006 I have been doing that. Having more people in loop is always good for these kind of sites. Few more have followed me in last few days and that has increased the number of responses on my posts.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Mar 19
haha Yes, I got it yesterday and approved too. I often checks who are following me and approve the requests. Yes the festival is already arrived for many. Due to getting wet our office declared 2 days holidays though one is unofficially. So I too won'e be here for two days. At home I have to care many things so I may not get time for mylotting. Have a colourful Holi to you and family. Enjoy.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Mar 19
@arunima25 Thank you so much. Since it is Holi I don't know how people celebrate on this new area. (we shifted home in January this year). I don't like to play with colours. Let me wait and see
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
@Sreekala I grew up in Delhi and enjoyed the festival in those years. Now even a thought of it dreads me. I like the well controlled disciplined celebration in our apartment. I remember girls could not go to colleges for a few days due to this festival with all hooliganism and balloon bursting. I even got badly hurt by balloons when I was in school. It hit me so hard on neck and my skin peeled off..
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
I got your notification too. So we too are following each other here and will have more chances of interactions. Enjoy your unexpected holiday. That is like a Holi bonanza. Happy Holiday to you and your family.
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@pitstop (13065)
• India
19 Mar 19
I've looked at quite a few of your discussions and responded to some. So now I am following you and hope to interact more!!
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@pitstop (13065)
• India
19 Mar 19
@arunima25 thank you
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
I just saw that notification. I am following you back.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
@pitstop Welcome
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
19 Mar 19
We both are following each other. It is habit that when I receiver notification that some one follow me than after checking profile I also follow them. Next two day I will active here.
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
19 Mar 19
@arunima25 Yes I understand you have many other work to do on festival. Our festival is also important for us.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
@anil02 Yes, this one is big one. Tomorrow I have to do a lot of shopping.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Good. I might not be so active with all festival thing but will definitely peep in every now and then.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
19 Mar 19
Hahahaha I like it. Enjoy exploring.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Yes enjoying it. Just trying to know few more here.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
19 Mar 19
@arunima25 Great
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Mar 19
I do follow you, I usually only read those I follow,
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Thank You. And so do I as I always get your posts in the follows tab.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
@KlyliePot I am cooking rice for my lunch in some time.
@allknowing (130240)
• India
20 Mar 19
Many follow me but I hardly see them here.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
I am following you and you will find me active till first week of April. So let's interact.
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@allknowing (130240)
• India
20 Mar 19
@arunima25 We have been interacting since a long time
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
20 Mar 19
This is a good way of staying connected
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@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
21 Mar 19
@arunima25 That is right and it becomes a strong motivation to go on
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
21 Mar 19
@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
Yes it is. We have more people in our loop and so more to interact with.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
19 Mar 19
I do follow you. I initiate my interact by going to Follows Their Discussion. This will show discussions for all the people I follow.
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@jobelbojel (34730)
• Philippines
20 Mar 19
@KlyliePot yes I do.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Even I do the same and I get your discussions as I am following you.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
@KlyliePot Yes I do.
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
19 Mar 19
I am just the opposite. I have been unfollowing those I never hear from.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
21 Mar 19
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
Yes that might neede later if they are inactive for too long. it is like de cluttering of the unwanted ones
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@JudyEv (326498)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Mar 19
I have a lot that I follow and I rarely go to the 'new' discussions any more which is a pity in a way. Mostly I stick to reading the posts of those I'm following. That takes up all my time.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
Yes having a lot of discussions there might be leaving you with no time. But then you have a lot of people to interact with and some or the other will always be active there. Also if they follow you back, you are going to get more responses with some time of posting your new discussion.
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@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
19 Mar 19
@arunima25 I just went in to see if I was following you so I pressed on it and am following you now.
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@Hannihar (129625)
• Israel
20 Mar 19
@arunima25 That is great.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Thank you. See this post helped me get few more friends for regular interactions.
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@nela13 (55761)
• Portugal
20 Mar 19
I don't know If I follow you but I will check it.
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@nela13 (55761)
• Portugal
20 Mar 19
@arunima25 Yes, I only started following you yesterday too.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
21 Mar 19
@nela13 Now we are in loop and hope to have more interactions.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
I just found that I have to follow you and so soon you will have a notification from my side. We had quite a few interactions in past but I had not followed you yet.
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@dya80dya (33861)
21 Mar 19
I am also following you.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
22 Mar 19
Thank you.
@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
19 Mar 19
I have the same feeling. I have so many followers and being followed. The sad part some of them are active.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
But it is always good to have more in loop. At least some would be always active to interact with.
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
19 Mar 19
Sounds like you have fun times ahead. I'm afraid I don't automatically follow someone who follows me, but wait until we've both responded to a few of each others posts. And now I have to check if I'm following you
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
That is a sensible thing to do. And since I have been here for an year, I have a fair idea of people I should be following now.
@db20747 (43434)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
19 Mar 19
I like to be followed and i'm also going to follow more people! So far i'm following only 20!! Have fun at the festival!!!
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
20 Mar 19
Even I realized that more were following me but I followed few and so I thought of doing this. I never gave it a thought earlier. So now if I feel that we had good number of interactions in the past, I am going to follow that person.
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@Janet357 (75656)
19 Mar 19
Me too, im kinda lazy to post some discussions.
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@arunima25 (85733)
• Bangalore, India
19 Mar 19
Yes, I have a lot in mind but they don't get their way through my keyboard.
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