What are some signs that tells you that the love is not real?

United States
November 28, 2006 10:15pm CST
In my relationship of 4 years I'm still kinda of unsure if he really love me ...... so what are some signs that would prove he has no love for me
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• Singapore
29 Nov 06
hmm..it depends on individual, i guess.. but as for me, it will depends on whether is he still the same as the beginning? am i involve in any decision making? i felt the love dying with my ex-bf when we hardly communicate at all unless we have to, he dont really go all out to romance me nor make me happy any more.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Things like he doesn't want to or doesn't enjoy spending time with you. If he is not as affectionate with you as he used to be. If you guys can no longer sit and talk without him getting angry etc...
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@mansha (6298)
• India
29 Nov 06
First of all if you are asking this question Its the first sign that you are somewhat disappointed in the guy.He doesn't care for yopu as much as you wish him to.Situation like this will only get worst over the years it will not improve. Try and distant yourself from him a bit and do not be too attentive and always there kind of person to him with in a week you will have your answer.
• United States
29 Nov 06
Thanks for this response I think it will help me some!!!!!! This is the response that is helping me the most I do feel pretty disapointed in how my relationship is going I thought I would get somewhere where I would never have to love another guy ever again the way I love him and am pretty dispointed to have the feeling that I may have to..... Thanks a billion for you response and have a blessed holiday!!!!!!!!