Be matured enough please

By eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
Philippines
May 15, 2019 6:13am CST
I don't want to be bothered with the idea that some people wanted to provoke others just because they wanted to lengthen a particular discussion and somehow try to win over a point. Like duh! Can they just be matured enough and learn to choose their battles? Petty fights aren't worth it if it put one's relationship to its final end.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (129531)
• Israel
15 May 19
@eLsMarie I hear what you are saying. Some just want to make noise and cause another trouble.
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eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 May 19
They've got so much hate in their lives.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (129531)
• Israel
15 May 19
@eLsMarie So so true,
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
15 May 19
Are you talking about mylot? My point to hang here to help and get help then enjoy. Not for fights at all.
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eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 May 19
I haven't encountered fight here in Mylot for a long time but I think somebody is trying to provoke me just to make sure that I'll be force to post more responses on his/her discussion. In the offline world, this also happens to me recently. I'm just glad that I was bale to control my emotions and somehow divert my attention to other relevant stuff.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
15 May 19
@eLsMarie When you encounter such issues, just move away without telling anything. I am using that method.
eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 May 19
@Sreekala True. I also do this method a lot now that I'm tired with all the drama. Some people need certain drama to live. Sad society.
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AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
21 May 19
Sometimes it is better to walk away. I've known people to provoke a fight because they were bored or because they didn't feel loved enough. I am not a confrontational person, I'd rather not start a fight.
eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
21 May 19
In my case, it's also beneficial that I am an introvert so being alone isn't an issue to me at all. I enjoy my own company most of the time.
AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
21 May 19
@eLsMarie I am the same way. I like being around people sometimes, but I have to have time for myself as well.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
15 May 19
One of the signs of maturity is that you know the difference and can choose your battles wisely. Just to win a discussion, you need not poke other people... This isn't something appreciated.
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eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 May 19
True. Just when they were able to taste their own dose of medicine, they start to blame other people more for their misfortune.
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