Don't agree if you're not doing it.

@tech40 (23128)
Philippines
June 25, 2019 1:52am CST
All of us know some people like this! They'll join a group and acts like that they agree into it, but in reality, they didn't! If you don't like it or if you're not doing it, just simply don't agree to it! It's simple and It's easy. Just be on yourself! Don't just follow the flow of those people who agree to it, because at the end you might be the reason to have a conflict in a group.
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
25 Jun 19
I am never a part of any group in which I can't contribute...
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
It's better not to be part of it than to be those people who just follow the flow, same! I'm not also part of any group
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@Aansh13 High five!
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
25 Jun 19
@tech40 ditto... High five
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
25 Jun 19
yeah this also happens in my circle of classmates, when the leader said something, they said that they agreed but later they will talk in the back that they actually dont agree
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
Those backstabbers! Urgh! I really don't like those type of people.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
Yes, it always boils down to being honest with one's self. In my case, often it happens, it's me against the world. I just see things on a different perspective, the perspective of truth. Good thought.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@tech40 Most people would jump at the bandwagon because they don't want to be left out. Thing is, most of them don't even know where they are headed. I'd walk alone if I have to. The journey might be rough, and long, but sure I'd get to where I wanna be.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@tech40 Yes, I do not mince words with my daughters, nor any one. Always straight and to the point. Just the truth. It's a code I live by. And may I say, you are also wise. Standing up against friends is an act of courage.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
I love how you explain it but that is correct! Each of us has a different perspective and some people just following the other people's decision
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
There is no need to agree if you do not like something.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
I agree with you! Why you should agree of something that you're not agreeing with. I just found it very unprofessional
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@tech40 If I do not like something, I ignore it
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• Rupert, Idaho
25 Jun 19
I agree with you on this...if you don't plan to, or want to do something...don't agree to!
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
Yeah! It's not hard to refuse!
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• Rupert, Idaho
25 Jun 19
@tech40 I get that....I really do.
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
@MommyOfEli2013 Yeah, just simply say "no" if they exists then say "no" because if something happened, you can't them others
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• United States
26 Jun 19
some people afraid to be alone
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
27 Jun 19
Yeah that is one of the option, so that they can keep their company, they should keep on joining to the group decision
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
29 Jun 19
@JasminRuru Yeah, I've been alone and I feel different about it, but I rather feel alone than to be with those people who's just going to use you
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• United States
29 Jun 19
@tech40 they dont want to see theirselves alone
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
25 Jun 19
I would like to give my own opinion in all places, do not follow any one for that. I wish to be a real person.
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@Shavkat (137256)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
I just ignore those people. I will not allow them to control me too.
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@Shavkat (137256)
• Philippines
26 Jun 19
@tech40 I do have a few casual friends. My immediate family members are considered the best of friends in my life.
@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
Same! I'd love to ignore them too, and that's why I only have few friends
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@Janet357 (75656)
25 Jun 19
yes you are right.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
25 Jun 19
There are reasons to agree and there are not. If you don't agree, state the reason.