Those People Who Want To See You FAIL / myLot

July 22, 2019 1:57pm CST

I really don't get those people who wish others to fail. You know that feeling when they keep on asking if you succeeded in doing something. They act like they care and excited to see if you can make it. But deep down they'll be celebrating to know the news of your failure. The sad part is when you actually fail at something because everyone's eyes were on you. I hate to admit it but they actually affect me too much. That pressure, that expectation.

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@Nakitakona (56302)

• Philippines

23 Jul 19

That's where jealousy comes in. It's natural. Forget them. Living is survival of the fittest and there's competition.

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Ayna4821

@Ayna4821 (11)

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23 Jul 19

The problem is that they are close to me. And whatever I do they would come knocking at my door.

Andre

@Erikapalmi (21)

• Venezuela

24 Jul 19

There will always be such people, many of them could be so close to you that you would not even notice it, so it is better that you do not give importance to this, be happy for your achievements is what matters, be assured of you, greetings!

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MainerMikeBrown

@MainerMikeBrown (1373)

• Bridgton, Maine

22 Jul 19

I would not want to be friends with anyone who wants me to fail and to suffer.

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M.-L.

@MALUSE (69390)

• Germany

22 Jul 19

These people won't change. **You** have to change! You have to learn not to be affected by them. Why do you care so much about what they think? The pressure, the expectation are solely your own. Don't put the blame on other people.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (129702)

• Israel

2 Aug 19

@Ayna4821 What you said here in this post is very true. There are those that do not want others to succeed. It could be that they are jealous of what the person has or that they are just nasty and do not care about anyone but themselves.

Yumeko

@aureategloom (8344)

• Bosnia And Herzegovina

26 Jul 19

i know the feeling. but the thing is - they kinda motivate me to do my best just so they can't hear me say that i failed.

Sandy

@velvet53 (22528)

• Palisade, Colorado

23 Jul 19

Win or lose, make it or not is none of their business. You gave it your all and that is all that matters. To heck with others think. You know what you have done and in your own mind you should be proud of yourself for the things you are trying to achieve. Don't let those people bring you down.