Is it wrong to always engange in a conversation quoting your own Experience?
By Sanyi
@chrisaloys2341 (73)
Accra, Ghana
August 3, 2019 11:50am CST
What will you do if your partner always shut you down or always get angry when you use your situation or past experiences as examples or proposed solutions in a conversation with him.
He mentioned his mother and sister who live in Belgium always fight because of financial reasons and I tried providing a solution base on have my mum and sister agree and he got mad.
i don't just understand am i doing something wrong. lol my world in a confusion era this days. lol
what will you do? because i love giving advise from what i have experieinced
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
5 Aug 19
I don't find it wrong somtimes but always doing it then yes because its different situations for different people. If this was a one time thing I would assume he's stresssed if its something you do a lot, like say based on your experience, it might frustrate them just because its different situations if that makes sense
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@Nakitakona (56300)
• Philippines
4 Aug 19
I find nothing wrong with it and for me it's a good practice. What do you mean by partner? Is he your hubby or boyfriend?
If he's your hubby, you should listen to your side. If not, he's a problem. He's difficult to deal with.
If he's your boyfriend, he's discourteous or impolite. He should respect you. Or else he's not the right person to you.
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@Aansh13 (11307)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Well, there is always going to be the difference in how different people perceive the situation.
I personally love sharing experiences, but there may be people around who may take it other way around. Well, just sense and change the way to explain.
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