To get marry is more and more difficult?

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@lin0775 (124)
August 21, 2019 12:01pm CST
According to the 2018 China statistical yearbook, The number of single people in China has reached 240 million, more than the combined population of Russia and Britain.My friend Wong just celebrated her 35th birthday, his birthday wish was to marry a pretty girl. To be honest, Wong is a good man, handsome and healthy. but as a Creative copywriter director of an advertising agency, everyday he either in a meeting or on the way to a meeting. So he has no time to meet different girls. His mother has long been worried about the marriage of Wong, she arranged many blind dates for him. As I know Wong did not find his angel. He told me about a blind date that he would never forget. He arrived at the meeting place in advance, he was told that the girl was a nurse, good looking, sweet and soft temper. The girl arrived after waiting for 3 hours. They began to talk but the girl refused to sit down. It’s weird, so Wong asked her why not sat down, she said. “I’m sorry, I'm a neat freak, and I don't sit down without being sure it’s clean.” From the very beginning the girl kept three rules for Wong, NO HOLDING HANDS, NO KISSING, NO SEX,because she thought it’s too dirty. At last, Wong could not bear it ,he had to break up with her. I’m sorry to hear the story, I hope Wong can find his happiness soon.
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@rossmy (89)
• Canada
22 Aug 19
Marriage can be a good thing, but there are more to do in the world than being in a romantic relationship. Having good friends and close families can bring so much joy with less emotional investment. If marriage finds you, go for it, but looking for someone to marry can be a lot of work, and the work continues and never ends even when you divorce. Perhaps, it is a risk not worth the reward.
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@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
thank you for your comment, your opinion is very enlightening to young people.
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@profree2019 (1218)
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
22 Aug 19
I think marriages should not be sought or pre-arranged. Finding the right person to share your life is very important and you have to let it come by itself. Wong will get the ideal girl without even noticing. It just has to be original.
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• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
22 Aug 19
@lin0775 I agree with you. These factors must be taken into account.
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@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
@profree2019 It's also a compromise of their lives, Praying for them is only I can do.
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@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
Many people like Wong are very busy and they have a small social circle, there is little opportunity to get a ideal mate in their social cycle, so TV shows on blind dates are very popular.
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@akalinus (40935)
• United States
21 Aug 19
That girl is not married because she has too many rules for dates to follow.
@akalinus (40935)
• United States
22 Aug 19
@lin0775 I hope Wong finds a girl who wants the same thing that he does.
@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
Although I don't think she is a normal girl, I still respect what she wants.
@Fleura (29266)
• United Kingdom
9 Nov 19
Are you in China? There are fewer women available for one thing, because many families preferred to have a boy. And plenty of those women have more opportunities now, and don't want to be a traditional housewife, treated more like an underclass. If he is as nice as you say, I expect he will find someone in the end, just when he least expects it.
@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
21 Aug 19
I believe wong did the right thing....you're not to be with a gurl who doesn't feel you differently
@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
I think so.
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• Karachi, Pakistan
22 Aug 19
@lin0775 yeah you shouldn't stay with someone who doesn't even care about you
@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
If I were Wong, I would make the same choice.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Aug 19
And he should break up with such girl. Looks she doesn't want a boyfriend or at least real one.
@lin0775 (124)
21 Aug 19
Maybe she is a lesbian.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
21 Aug 19
@lin0775 I don't think she is. If she doesn't like hold hands, she better find self a robot.
@lin0775 (124)
22 Aug 19
@mrki444 well, anyway, I don't think she is normal.
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@Nakitakona (56300)
• Philippines
22 Aug 19
That's weird. No further comment.
• India
22 Aug 19
Now this time lot of person are very busy with professional life because the job is very different and need much time, They can't manage personal and professional life. The main and simple reasons is that manage the time for personal and professional for work and relationship. Your decisions will make you busy and happy for yourself.