Supporting the Transgender Student

@NJChicaa (116232)
United States
October 14, 2019 3:55pm CST
That was the name of one of the workshops that I attended today. We got to choose the ones we attended so this was one that I wanted to go to and to learn from. They didn't really go into what a transgender student is pretty much because everyone knows. Primarily it was about what the law says and what our district's policy is about the students, their paperwork, their rights, etc. Most of the legal part is about Title IX (no sexual discrimination), freedom of speech/expression, and one other one that I'm forgetting. That's what our district's policy was primarily based on--the law. I learned that we have to use the pronouns that the student wants us to use. (Duh) I would think that every educator would know that but apparently one is being sued by a student's parents for refusing to do so. (not in our district) I learned that they are free to use whichever bathroom they feel most comfortable in. . . including the one in the nurse's office. Same goes for changing in locker rooms. Also these students do not have to submit any type of paperwork (doctor's note, court order, etc.) in order to have these rights or to change their name/sex on their school records and diploma. One thing that DID surprise me was that the NJ high school sports association states that transgender athletes can compete on teams for their gender identity--they don't have to play on teams of their biological identity. It was good to learn about the school's policy for transgender students. I have had a few over the years and a lot of it was a gray area for me aside from respecting them and keeping an eye out for bullying.
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@marguicha (216186)
• Chile
14 Oct 19
It is a difficult time to learn to deal with so many changes. I tend to think that some movements are good but have gone too far, such as the me too movement. As for transgender athletes, I think that it is not fair for the other team if the competition has a a biological male playing with a team of women. No matter what their wishes, males have better muscles than women.
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@shaggin (71676)
• United States
14 Oct 19
Men and women can play on the same team as far as football goes etc. It does seem that in some competition's it wouldn't be fair a born male competing against a born female. My daughter said the past two years that she was transgender and told me about two weeks ago or less that she realized she is not.
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@NJChicaa (116232)
• United States
15 Oct 19
That is interesting. We were talking about that yesterday. That does happen to some teenagers.
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
14 Oct 19
I am confused by the names. What is transgender and what is transsexual?
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@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
14 Oct 19
Thanks for the explanation. That means there is no difference between those 2 trans.
• Waialua, Hawaii
15 Oct 19
My concern with using whichever bathroom is that there could be "fakes" posing as transgender - such as a man who likes little girls using the women's bathroom and preying on them... Just something to consider...
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@NJChicaa (116232)
• United States
15 Oct 19
I highly doubt that would happen. And shouldn't their parent be with them?