What is The Best Way To Move on with My Ex?

October 20, 2019 11:33am CST
Hello guys. I am so much in love with my Ex. Is it the right thing that i still contact her and still support Her? I want to really move on but i dont know where to start.
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10 responses
@thelme55 (76479)
• Germany
20 Oct 19
You can start to move on my keeping your mind busy with other things rather than thinking of her. Welcome to Mylot!
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@thelme55 (76479)
• Germany
20 Oct 19
@charlesjan2019 just try to forget her and move on. I know that it is easier said than done.
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20 Oct 19
Thank You so, Thelma. Actually she broke with me 7 months ago but I feel that my love for her is growing stronger. Being not able to contact her makes me miss her more and more. I keep myself busy always but still im longing for her even in my dreams.
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20 Oct 19
@thelme55 I know I can do this maybe little by little. Thank you so much for encouraging me to move on.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
20 Oct 19
Welcome to My Lot. I suggest keep busy with other things. Try to stop contacting her and support her less often. I think in time you will move on so good luck.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
21 Oct 19
@charlesjan2019 I am delighted that you are finding My Lot so very friendly. I am glad that your pain is going away. You have the right mindset.
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25 Oct 19
@maximax8 Yes im so glad that I found MyLot while searching for the best site in which you can communicate with matured people. Now im feeling better than before and thank everyone here for giving me advice and encouraging words in order to overcome this pain.
21 Oct 19
@maximax8 i am very much happy i met a lot of good people here in myLot. Thank you for your advice and i will surely put that into action in order to slowly end this pain i feel inside
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@rebelann (111411)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Oct 19
That's a tough one. If you can handle just being friends than keep it going if she is receptive.
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20 Oct 19
This is really tough. I will do my best in order to recover from this situation. I appreciate your response to my discussion.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Oct 19
you will find a place to move on there.I would not dwell on this.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
20 Oct 19
@charlesjan2019 yes you do not want to lose too much sleep over this
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20 Oct 19
Hopefully, I can move on soon because this pain really cost me a lot of sleepless nights. Thanks for the encouragement @Alfredo.
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21 Oct 19
@amadeo Yes and your advices makes my emotion more stable now and started get my sleep a lot better than the past few days
@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
20 Oct 19
You need to create a distance between the two of you if you really want to move on. Welcome to myLot.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
20 Oct 19
@charlesjan2019 I hope you enjoy your time here. There is a lot of great people who are very supportive when you need them.
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21 Oct 19
@Happy2BeMe i really appreciate all the positive responses here and i am so blessed to become part of this community. Im just new here so i just need also guides on how to grow my myLot account and connect with a lot of people.
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20 Oct 19
Thank you so much. I just need a lot of courage in order for me to do this. Thank you so much for your suggestion. It is a great pleasure to become part of myLot family.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
20 Oct 19
It depends upon the circumstances of your break up. Did you leave her? Did she leave you? Was it a mutual decision? Are there children involved? You should distance yourself from her and examine your feelings. Is it love or is it obsession?
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20 Oct 19
She is the one who initiated the break-up. I trust my heart that all I feel for her is pure Love and not an obsession. We have so many plans in the future and suddenly its all gone. The good thing is that still, no children involve.
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@psanasangma (6082)
• India
23 Oct 19
I think it will be good to keep distance... Sometimes loving someone too much does not pay off when other person does not understand ...
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25 Oct 19
@psanasangma Yeah I agree what you say. Sometimes if you really love a person so much, you are blinded for the things that are going on. That's the sad reality about one-sided love.
@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
20 Oct 19
That is good that you support her. If you want to get over her just distance yourself for a while.
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20 Oct 19
Thank you so much for that very kind word, my friend. I will try my best to do so.
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
20 Oct 19
@charlesjan2019 sometimes when we break up with our partner we have no choice because when my ex left with another girl i had learn to forget. I was hurting even more. Now he looks for me and i don't want anything with him.
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21 Oct 19
@Ladanger She never told me that she is having another guy but i have a strong feeling that She has one. My heart beat so fast and feel nervous that there is something going on that i do not know. Thanks for sharing your experience and i'll do all i can to handle this and move on from this soon. I will make her regret for breaking me up by making myself a better version of me.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
21 Oct 19
It's impossible for you to do that for you're so much with your ex. If you could forget it, it would be natural to move on.
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
22 Oct 19
@charlesjan2019 I know you can do if you really want to move on. The easiest way is to find someone right away to replace her. If not, do something to relieve yourself of longingness like indulge in sports, party going, community outreach program, among others.
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22 Oct 19
@Nakitakona For now all i want to do is to give time to myself, relax, refresh and make myself stable enough emotionally. Thank you for that very good advices and i will surely engage in one of thoses soon.
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21 Oct 19
@Nakitakona It is really hard to do that especially my mind and heart still focusing on her. So what i am doing now is moving on slowly step by step to make it more easy for me. Thanks for your response.
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@Rohithee (374)
• India
25 Oct 19
Forget those and see ex conversation memes to live enjoy
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