What have I been doing all this time? I went and got married. Well sh*t!!

By DJ
@Daljinder (23233)
Bangalore, India
December 20, 2019 2:18am CST
Nope! Not joking. Still hadn't hit me yet, however. I not just married. I also moved far away from my home state. Went to South India from North India. Complete cultural and linguistic difference. It has been good till now and hoping it stays so forever. (Yep! Very realistic of me )
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@LadyDuck (458711)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 19
Congratulations, I have watched the video, beautiful costumes. Why were all the not very young women so serious in the video? Usually everyone is happy at a marriage.
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@LadyDuck (458711)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 19
@Daljinder I really loved your videos and you are beautiful.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 19
@LadyDuck Thank you. Most of their pictures are either from inside Gurdwara (a place of worship) or from during performing rituals. In one clip, my mother in law is getting emotional. Happy / fun times come at ball room. The young women dancing were from that place.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 19
Thank you @LadyDuck
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@Starkinds (32703)
• India
20 Dec 19
Congratulations my friend and amazing video
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 19
@Starkinds Thank you. How have you been?
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@vandana7 (98896)
• India
21 Dec 19
You look conscious..LOL. I guess this is trending..but you two do make a beautiful couple... congratulations ... all the best...and thanks for sharing..
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@vandana7 (98896)
• India
23 Dec 19
@Daljinder Honest? Meant..you are more aware of clothing and make up than being your natural self. You are much much prettier...the makeup person failed to notice that...did a mechanical job in the wedding dress part..make up in the other set of clothes was good
@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
23 Dec 19
I don't understand your comment about DJ looking conscious, vanny. What am I missing in that situation? (Is it something I'd want/need to know if we ever did get married? *grinning and teasing you*)
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
23 Dec 19
@vandana7 conscious?
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Dec 19
Turkish weddings are like the one you've shown here. I've attended some. There are many Turks in Germany.
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@LadyDuck (458711)
• Switzerland
20 Dec 19
@MALUSE She and her husband are in the photo.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
20 Dec 19
@LadyDuck Oh, I see. I didn't realise this.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 19
@MALUSE Welll, I am Indian by nationality and Sikh by religion.
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@sallypup (58038)
• Centralia, Washington
22 Dec 19
Congrats!?
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
23 Dec 19
Uhm... why a question mark after your comment, Lenore? (I'm just curious. )
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@sallypup (58038)
• Centralia, Washington
23 Dec 19
@Daljinder I wasn't sure if you were joking or meant it. Congrats on your happy marriage.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
23 Dec 19
@sallypup uh... thanks?
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@TheHorse (206140)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Dec 19
Heh heh. Congratulations!
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@vandana7 (98896)
• India
23 Dec 19
@Daljinder What!!!!..he said something to you that I don't know?
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@vandana7 (98896)
• India
23 Dec 19
Pony how about writing a nice song and singing it for a kid you like and her getting married...I am serious...I will plagiarize some of the pictures from DJ's clipping. Something like..little girl, when did you grow up so much, was I asleep all this while, was it not yesterday that your small hands were in mine, and now they are too big for me to hold, so I am passing them on, and will I miss you, but I will, and I can't tell you, or shouldn't, as you might just return, thinking of me, as all alone, but you need to go, like the tide, others have left, you go too. I will think of you, and hope you will think of me too. But you have to go, for I will be gone, and then you will be lonely too. So go on, sing and dance with the waves and be happy. Something to that effect..I bet her folks felt it that way. This is not romantic stuff, ok? For you to feel hesitant to sing...grrrr...you are mission impossible Pony ji...someday I will box your ears shake your head so hard that the world will spin around you.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
23 Dec 19
@TheHorse Thank you again
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
20 Dec 19
Congratulations, my best wishes to both of you, you all look great.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 19
@louievilk Thank you very much.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
20 Dec 19
congratulations! i've never seen an actual indian wedding so thanks for sharing the video. i hope it won't be difficult for your family to visit you and vice versa.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
23 Dec 19
@hereandthere That was one of the reasons why I shared the teaser here. You are welcome. My family will be visiting in January for my first festival after wedding. All first festivals after my wedding actually (hopefully).
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
23 Dec 19
Congratulations, DJ! (Sorry, in the US friends hug the bride after the wedding! ) You made such a beautiful bride! And your dress is gorgeous! I hope everything in your future is always happy and you and your husband enjoy long and fulfilled lives.
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@vandana7 (98896)
• India
23 Dec 19
@Daljinder Somebody said high expectations are the only thing that spoil marriages. Keep expectations as low as possible, everything will be pleasant surprise, including the fact that the spouse knows how to flush.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
23 Dec 19
@DaddyEvil Thank you so much. I hope so too.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
31 Dec 19
• United States
21 Dec 19
congrats!! y'all 're a most strikin' couple fer certain 'n i'm so happy fer ya. thanks much fer invitin' 's all to see yer beautiful weddin' 'n all that such entails'n yer country. wishin' ya many, many years 'f happiness. i'm sure yer gonna 'djust jest fine to the diff'rences.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
31 Dec 19
@crazyhorseladycx Thank you so much. I am trying each day. With time, adjustment will happen.
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@lovebuglena (43080)
• Staten Island, New York
20 Dec 19
Enjoy it while it lasts. Things won't always be peachy.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 19
@lovebuglena That's life
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
23 Dec 19
OH! I didn't expect anyone to throw reality at DJ so quickly after she announced her marriage, Lena! (That's like getting hit with a bucket full of cold water! ) It's a good thing we're talking about @Daljinder. I'm pretty sure she keeps a level head no matter what may be going on around her.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
23 Dec 19
@DaddyEvil True! I am aware of reality already. Will see when the time comes. Living in the moment right now.
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@Hannihar (129508)
• Israel
20 Dec 19
@Daljinder Congrats. I hope you will be very happy. Hard to be away from what you know. I hope it all works out for you.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 19
@Hannihar That's true. Thank you and I hope so too.
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@Hannihar (129508)
• Israel
22 Dec 19
@Daljinder You are welcome.
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
20 Dec 19
That's a nice teaser. Stay blessed! Congratulations!
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 19
@arunima25 Thank you
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@Janet357 (75656)
20 Dec 19
yes, that's the downside if moving to another place.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
21 Dec 19
@Janet357 True. It has pros and cons.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
23 Dec 19
You both look amazing. I hope you have a wonderful life together.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
31 Dec 19
@sprite1950 Thank you
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@Orson_Kart (6118)
• United Kingdom
30 Jan 20
Congratulations! You look great. He's a very lucky man.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
4 Feb 20
Thank you
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@rebelann (111236)
• El Paso, Texas
23 Dec 19
Congratulations. I hope you both will remain happy through the years.
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@rebelann (111236)
• El Paso, Texas
31 Dec 19
Happy New Year @Daljinder I hope it will be a very happy one for you.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
31 Dec 19
@rebelann1949 Thank you so much.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49067)
• United States
22 May 20
I had the chance to watch your marriage video. It is breathtaking
@VivaLaDani13 (60431)
• Perth, Australia
22 Feb 20
@Daljinder YAY! Gonna say it again! You are beautiful damn it! That hug near the end though! That made me emotional.
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• Perth, Australia
27 Feb 20
@Daljinder aww lol too sweet!
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
26 Feb 20
@VivaLaDani13 Of course it did coz it was a part of farewell time. My sister was crying a lot and I hugged her trying to make her stop crying. Funny coz it should have been me crying.
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@gofsey (1912)
• Madurai, India
18 Mar 20
Congratulations! Wish you all the happiness there is in life! Welcome to South India, it is a very healthy and happy community much like your dancing relatives in the video. By the way it is looking beautiful also. Sorry for the late message, I was not in touch for some time with myLot.
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
22 Mar 20
@gofsey You are welcome! And no worries about being late, I have been on and off as well. I hardly find time to make couple of comments here post marriage. I do hope to increase the time spent here gradually.
@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
28 Mar 20
@gofsey In a lockdown
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@gofsey (1912)
• Madurai, India
24 Mar 20
@Daljinder Ciao! Enjoy yourself!
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