The "End of The Decade" Challenge.

Photo Credit: Pixabay.
@tammys85 (29961)
Baltimore, Maryland
December 29, 2019 9:04pm CST
I was inspired by my friend @skydream to take this challenge, as you basically list 10 accomplishments within the last decade. It doesn't matter if it's big or small, as long as YOU feel it was an accomplishment. It's going to be lengthy, but here's my list..... 1. Getting started in freelance writing in 2009. I started on Associated Content, which later became Yahoo! Contributor Network. I also tried websites such as Bukisa, Triond, etc., and it was this way for a few years. It had some ups and downs, but I don't have any regrets, as it gave me more experience in the freelance world. 2. Working my way up with my freelance writing. I eventually joined Textbroker and Zerys, and while I hit a bump in the road thanks to my own anxiety, I got back on track about two months later. From there, I gained private clients and more experience, and I grew as a freelance writer. It was the experience from those two websites that eventually gave me the confidence to become active on Fiverr (which comes later). 3. In 2013, I traveled to New York City for several days with my friends for Wrestlemania 29. It was my first big trip without any family members, so that was a big deal for me. I had an amazing time hanging out with my friends, meeting wrestlers and checking out Times Square for the first time ever. 4. Approaching wrestlers at the "Superstars 4 Sandy" charity banquet, to help those affected by Hurricane Sandy, during Wrestlemania 29 week. They didn't mind fans approaching them, but I'm pretty shy, so that was another big deal for me. 5. Oh, and being able to pay for my own wrestling trips throughout the decade was a big accomplishment for me. It felt good to know *I* did it myself, especially when some people didn't -and still don't- take work-from-home jobs seriously. 6. Taking the train alone in NYC during my SummerSlam 2015 trip. It was after an autograph signing with Randy Orton. The subway station was right there, my friends told me where to go and I met up with them at my destination stop. However, traveling anywhere alone is a huge fear of mine, and I remember my friend's Mom (who's a friend of mine) telling me how proud she was that I did that on my own. 7. Anytime I've ever had to walk anywhere alone, i.e., the dentist, as once again, it's a huge fear of mine. I take it on an event-by-event basis, but anytime I do it, it's an accomplishment for me. 8. Taking the leap on Fiverr. My Daddy had me sign up years before he passed, but I never had the confidence to do anything with it. I wanted to add another egg to my basket, so in late 2017, I read up on it, and then I think in early 2018, I made the leap and posted my gigs. Now, I'm a level two seller with several weekly/monthly clients. Sometimes I get swamped with work, and sometimes it's stressful, but I'm grateful for the opportunity, and I hope my Daddy is proud of me. 9. Starting my funds for New Kids On The Block events earlier this year. It may not seem like a big deal to others, but for me, I'm taking the steps to make certain dreams come true, rather than sitting around saying "I wish, I wish...." over and over again. I haven't added to it since the start of the holiday season, so I'll pick it back up in the New Year. 10. Last but not least, getting through the hardest week of my life, when we lost Daddy. I don't know if it counts as an accomplishment, but it's something I never thought I could handle. But even with the breakdowns, I managed to get through it. I hope he's proud of Mommy, me and the rest of our family. Welp, those are my 10 accomplishments for the decade. You're welcome to try this out on your own account, even if it seems small, even if it's not a list of 10. It doesn't matter, as long as YOU feel accomplished. And here's to 10 more years of accomplishments. Photo Credit: Pixabay.
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• Rupert, Idaho
31 Dec 19
Those all sound like great accomplishments to me! I will have to think of mine, but not sure I have many to write a list of my own.
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
1 Jan 20
Thank you! You don't need many, as long as they're important to you. :)
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
2 Jan 20
@MommyOfEli2013 I'm sure you will, you got this! :)
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• Rupert, Idaho
1 Jan 20
@tammys85 Well I just wish I would have accomplished more. But maybe in this coming decade I will accomplish way more.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
4 Jan 20
I love that you did things even though you had fear. Good for you. Hope you keep trying
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
4 Jan 20
Thank you so much. It's definitely not easy, and I have to take it event by event. Thanks again!
@just4him (309082)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Jan 20
That's a great list of ten accomplishments. Even if nobody else would be proud of you, you have a lot to be proud of. I know you have a lot of support and everyone is proud of you. I'm proud of you too. I don't know if I have ten. I'll need to think about that.
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
1 Jan 20
Thank you so much! I really do appreciate that! It doesn't have to be 10, as long as they're accomplishments to you.
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@skydream (1446)
• Agate, Colorado
2 Jan 20
Those are really big accomplishments im proud of you! Traveling alone is still hard for me so I get how big a thing that is. I'm also glad you started freelance because if i remember correctly that was how we met through twitter you letting me know you did it and then helping me get started so im really glad you started it! I'm also sure your dad is proud of you but its so cool to have a site he told you to do and now you get to make other goals come true because of it so you have another way to keep him around. And I woulddefinitely count that as an accomplishment thats one of the hardest things to go through and you guys made it through together thats a big deal!
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
2 Jan 20
It's STILL hard for me to travel alone, especially in this day and age, so anytime I can do it, I feel proud (and relieved that I survived it, to be honest). I think we also met through a wrestling fan, but we probably started talking more because of freelance writing and wrestling. Aw thank you so much. I hope he's proud of me, especially since he's the one who taught me it was possible to work from home. "I'm also sure your dad is proud of you but its so cool to have a site he told you to do and now you get to make other goals come true because of it so you have another way to keep him around." --- Wow, I never thought of that, thank you so much! Yeah, when I used to go to therapy, my Dad was still alive, and somehow the subject of losing him came up, and not seeing him every day, and it was difficult to even talk about. When he went to the hospital, I remember constantly saying "I can't do this" - but I had no choice, so I pulled through with my family. I did kind of make a mental promise to him at his viewing that I'd be okay, so I need to keep my promise. Thank you again, love you.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
30 Dec 19
That was a good read Tammy. I hope to make a post about the coming new year and past decade if I find the time.
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
1 Jan 20
Thanks! I hope you're able to do it. If not, there's always January 1st, it's never too late. :)
@happylife1 (13404)
• Karachi, Pakistan
30 Dec 19
what a busy life you have!!
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@tammys85 (29961)
• Baltimore, Maryland
1 Jan 20
Sometimes lol.